Living life to the fullest

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Everyone has his/her own definition of life, and we create the lifestyle we want from our thoughts and actions. Always crave for what's new to learn and move forward with your life, blaming and accusing others of your failure isn't the way you should live your life. Just as I said earlier, living the life to the fullest is up to us. We can settle for average life if we want, the choice is simply ours.

Below are some tips that will assist you on how to live your life to the fullest;

  • Admit that life is a journey and not a destination
    This saying might sound weird and bizarre, but all the same it's the truth: living life to it's fullest is a process that's gonna take some long period of time to develop. Although frustration and setbacks or on the way, you shouldn't get distracted or discouraged by them. This is a natural part of life.

  • Be sincere with yourself
    Being dishonest willows away our happiness and energy. We tend to hold ourselves back from learning and achieving new things when were dishonest. Trust and intimacy is destroyed when were dishonest or not trustworthy with others.

  • Accept who you are
    Most times we spend our whole day looking at what we don't have or what we don't like about ourselves. It's never possible to focus on our future when our mind is filled with doubts and what we couldn't achieve in the past. Aspire to love yourself everyday.

You can continue by adding a list of your strengths, like what you're good at, what you're bad at. This will help in paying attention to your self positively and eliminate the failure you thought you were.

  • Embrace flexibility
    A core reason why we become sop frustrated and depressed is simply because expect things top remain the same way they were. Nevertheless, life is full of change, by all means we should strive to accept whatever life throws at us, open yourself up to the process of growth and change, and learn to adjust to new challenges and situations that comes up.

Cultivating positive emotions, which includes happiness, cheerfulness, joy and a merry heart, will help you develop flexibility. Look for what's helpful and what isn't. Atleast with this way you'll be able to identify the responses that are helpful and the one's that aren't helpful or useful. By all means we should look at negative effects as learning experience.

The famous entrepreneur ''Steve Jobs'' said

Getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.

Being fired from your own company could actually be the worst thing that can happen to any man, but Steve held on to his faith and right now his living his life to the fullest.

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Accept who you are and what you are. Never forget what you are because the rest of the world will not.

This life is nothing but choice, and this choice is predetermined by the calibre of people you are moving or rolling with. Peer do have a great influence on one success
Nice points @jesse12

blaming and accusing others of your failure isn't the way you should live your life.

I learnt this about 3 years ago when I had an issue with my uncle. When each and everyone learn to take responsibility for one's self, things will be better. Move on... Keep moving on
Thank you for this Jboy #winks

You never think you will come this far but here you are now, continue to be your self and embrace your flexibility,such a nice post, Weldon son......

Very well said
We are what we choose to be
Others shouldn't be blamed for our failures whatsoever but ourselves.

The earlier we come to terms with that fact, the better for us....

People address you by the way you present yourself.
Life has it ups and downs but we all have to face our challenge and conquer them.
You're such a motivational speaker

Well said.

Out of the abundance of heart the mouth speaketh

We should always positively and think positively.

Its our onus to make or mar our life.

Blessings

Life night has it's up's and down's but don't let it weigh you down keep moving ahead