first of all: CONGRATS! ♡ ♡

Yes.. it's a big problem actually, this thinking that women owe guys something.
I've, in general been lucky I think, with my male friends because I do have a few that I know would absolutely rip a stalker a new one on my behalf XD
But I hear ya... Sadly, I can't even blame a lot of them, it starts in the way boys and girls are brought up, the values they are tought, and sadly, we still have a looong way to go before we come even close to making a dent in "male privilege" :/