How to Slay that Dragon and be a Writing Machine!

in #life7 years ago

Fuuuuuck!? I’ve been writing this on Ginger and it crashed!


Three hours of work is now gone. I had to do this over again, fucking sucks. But I guess that’s on me. Your machine is bound to crash if you got many browsers with multiple tabs plus several other apps running on it. I guess I’ll chuck it up to experience.

Anyways, I’ll try to recreate the best I can what I have written or typed down so far. So, here it goes….

I talked about slaying my procrastidragon and getting the motivation to finish this thing that I have been trying to write for several days already.

So, this post is about me learning how to write and blog better here on Steemit. My aim for this is to be able to write down what I have in mind and rapidly parse out the ideas in my head and put it in a legible and interesting form. To do that, I’ve read a couple of posts that gave me some ideas, encouragement, and guidelines, that I plan on doing. As a matter of fact, I’m applying it right now.


As I’ve mentioned before , I was reading up on Yallapapi’s #Sharkschool series, which is a very funny, yet pragma... or as he puts it, "this shit it is real, bro!" take on finding your writer's voice, becoming a better writer, and getting noticed here on Steemit. He said that he’s been writing since he was a little kid and sees it as a form of expressing himself. He boasts that he can quickly write 2000+ word post in an intuitive manner. He can also easily see the connections and the structures of his paragraphs and format it in his head.

And I plan on being able to do that.

Putting Theory Into Practice

But first, I have to practice one of the lessons that I got from reading his long ass posts. That is to write, and write, then write some more, until I become at least somewhat good at it. That is lesson one for me right now, which is why I am planning on putting up a lot of posts here on Steemit. So be ready for a lot of content from me. But to do that, I also need your help, I do need some pestering from time to time so I can get up and slay that dragon again. So, I am thanking you, my beloved Steemians in advance.

Anyways, when I started this post, I was trying to follow some of the Cryptobro’s advice on being myself and being more colorful. I tried winging it and I wrote this blurb here, which I’d like to share with you just for the heck of it:

“So, I'm just following his advice because, as he puts it, I'm neither popular nor am I a hot chick with a huge rack.

Aaaaand... that's why we're here. I meant that's why I'm writing this. To help me become a better blogger, communicator, aaand... writer? author? Who knows really.

Why is that, you ask? Well, so I can get me all those needed upvotes, and views, and followers, so I can make all the money in the world! Then I can live on an island, sit underneath a coconut tree with my laptop, some protein shake in my hand, and doze off, surf, or do whatever the hell I want!


Buuut... I think I already did that. Well, some of that at least. I lived on one of the islands in the Philippines, although, technically was smack dab in the middle of the city, but you can drive to the beach in 30 mins. or 6 hours, depending on the traffic. So, I had that. I was also doing whatever I want, which was eat, sleep, workout a bit, rinse and repeat.”

Letting Go

I stalled. When I was writing that, I didn’t know where it was heading. Or, I just don’t like where it was about to go, it might be somewhere in my psyche that I’m not ready to share. I know, it sounds a lot like bull crap, but that is how I am feeling and I am sticking with it.

This leads me to the second person I chanced upon when I was looking for guides to following Steemians, Stellabelle. I found her post on Medium that talks about how to kill here and anywhere else, for that matter. One of the main ideas she shared was not to give a fuck about what people will say or think about what you write. Doing so will only hinder your creativity. Also, to write about things that will make your heart quiver or feel like you are about to expose too much of yourself. This bit resonated with me greatly since I have a dense filter in my head right now and on top of that, I am writing in my second language, which I’ve yet to master.

Anyways, I think I just need to clear that subconscious fear in my head about people laughing at me when I make these mistakes. I guess, I got that back in high school, which is a story for another day.

Taking Advantage of Technology

To breakthrough that barrier, I am taking advantage of the many apps that I can use as a cloaking device to evade the Grammernazis that hound people who unwittingly press enter without spell/grammar checking.

So, now I was writing this on Ginger, which unfortunately crashed on me probably because I used up my weekly correction allotment. My gorgeous Aunt Grace suggested to me to use it when she found some mistakes in my initial post. It turns out that it is a lot easier to take advantage of the technology around us and learn from it.

I also found this article comparing the different grammar correction softwares that are available out there. It was mainly focused on being which are Wordpress friendly but I was more interested in its analysis of which ones are the best to use. Since the free grammar app crashed on me, I am going with Grammarly. Haha! I also found out about the Hemingway editor through that article. It will show the readability of your work and highlights the text with different colors that suggest changes on your articles. It is quite easy to use but you still have to know the difference between active and passive voices and such, to be able to make the proper edits. But you really do not have to follow everything the app say, as this author’s review of the artificial intelligence app suggested.

Diving Deep Into Your Passion

Another bit that I gravitated towards in Stellabelle's post was her view on how to manage her different interests. Since, I have also been told that I dip too much into many things that I never get anything done, which I think is a valid criticism. But then again, I love learning new things. And I think I just realized that it is what I am passionate about. Learning, growing, and mastering skills. I’ve seen some Alan Watts videos on Youtube, I am kinda biased here, but I agree with him, especially on learning and developing skills. That’s another post that I think I have to write.

Anywho, going back to the Wolf of Steem, Stellabelle, her suggestion was to dive deep into your passions and read a lot about it. to gather as much information about it so you can share it with the world and hope that it helps humanity in some way.

Well, I guess that is it for now. I've spent waaaay too much time here. Hahaha! If you are still here reading this, I would like to give a big thank you for your patience and I hope you got something out of this. Here's a big hug for you!

Please let me know how I did with this one in the comment section, feedback will only help me improve. So, please let loose with your criticisms down at the comment section. Thank you!

Until next time!

For the mean time, check out my other posts here:

Media Credits
Gifs from Giphy.Com
Procrastidragon from MakeaMeme.org
"Grammar Nazi" by Pocketlintchibis on Deviantart
"Krisis" Photo by Stefano Pollio on Unsplash
"Alan Watts Teaches How Skill Leads To Happiness" Video from Conscious Explorations on YouTube

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@johannrandall, I think you’ve been doing pretty good, considering English is your second language :0)

I think a lot of us have that internal barrier when it comes to writing things that are personal. What if people don’t like it? Or even worse: what if they think you’re an idiot? Lol

When I first arrived here on SteemIt, I stayed on the safe side. You know: articles about crypto and stuff. I had been in online marketing for 15 years, and all that time I had been witing meaningless sales pitches. Writing had become a job.
So that’s what I brought with me when i came to SteemIt. I was always hiding behind big words and true facts.
After a while I got tired of it. It was all so forced and no fun at all. I considered quitting SteemIt alltogether, but decided to write one last post about my frustrations. That was the first time I showed SteemIt my real me. I can’t explain how free it felt to just write, be myself, be open.
That was a couple of months ago, and since that day, I opened up more every day. Not only on SteemIt, but in real life as well. And I noticed it has been paying off. Not financially (I wish, haha), but when it comes to connecting with people.
People like other people to be real. And except maybe for one moron as an exception, I never had any negative reaction. I’m still learning - it may feel safer to hide behind fake stuff and to pretend to be someone you’re not - but it is in fact way easier to be yourself. I try not to be hesitant about my doubts or my fears anymore - I’ve already experienced how the positive feedback from people can easily turn these around.
So I’d say: keep writing, keep growing, keep steeming ;0)

Thank you for your comment @simplymike and words of encouragement! It is greatly appreciated. I'm glad that you are experiencing that change, I am hoping it will have the same effect on me. Opening up and expressing my emotions are things that I don't really do, even in real life. I tend to be a quiet person, mostly observing people around me, listening and keeping most of thoughts securely in my head. I tend to follow the mantra, less talk, less mistake. I think, that is why I like communicating through writing more, I get to say what I want to say but I can also go back and delete things that I think are not appropriate to say. I've had many occasions where I spoke and afterwards, say to myself, 'should have said this... should have said that..." But as you said, we're still learning. I'll crack open in time. Have a great one! :D

Got the same thing going on. Wasting a lot of energy by asking myself whether I should have said this or that. That often creates a negative spiral of thoughts.

Because of things I have experienced in the past, I’m still learning to speak out my thoughts and show how I feel.
I used to be afraid that people would think I was weak for showing emotions. Step-by-step I’m learning that people love you even more when you have the guts to do show you’re not perfect. But it’s a long process, and I still have a long way to go :0)
SteemIt has been really a game changer. I’ve built this awesome group of friends on here (never thought that it would be possible to consider people you met online as being friends) who are always ready to support me when I don’t feel great. That shouldn’t surprise me though, ‘cos that’s how I’m treating other people too... I assume you get what you give, and the more you show yourself, the more it is appreciated ;0)

Yeah, but I don't dwell too much on the negatives, I just think how I could have said things better.

I've also said some things that got me in trouble or that might have hurt other people's feelings, without me thinking realizing what was happening.

I agree with you, sometimes showing emotions, or not, is a cultural thing and it is ingrained in us. Thus, it can be quite a challenge to change those habits that are deep in our subconscious.

Yeah, I think this site started out with that good intention in mind. But then again, it is how people use this technology to benefit them. Good for you for finding friendship online, but I think all my online friends are people that I have already met in real life. Except maybe for @flauwy, we've known each other online before meeting in real life. He was the one who introduced me to this platform. Maybe you'll be another one. :D