How To Deal With Crappy People
There are four types of people in the world.
Happy
These people are genuinely happy in the world. Be happy for those people. They tend to be positive about everything around them; They do their best to stay happy even when things go wrong.
People In Pain
These people tend to keep boundaries; Something deeper seems to be bothering them on a regular basis . it’s best to cultivate compassion with these people.
Good People
These people are all around good. They may or may not show signs of happiness or boundaries. But be grateful for them. They don’t have ulterior motives.
Crappy People
These people who want to do you harm for no reason at all. These people should be avoided at all cost, They are like diseases, You don’t want them in your life.
Holding Grudges
Remember when you hold a grudge for too long, It’s no longer about them, It’s about you. You not being able to let it go becomes your problem.
Completely Ignore the Evil People
- Don’t think about them.
- Ignore them
- Don’t talk to them
- Don’t write to them
- Don’t give them advice; They will never listen .
- Never even gossip about them, Even if it’s behind their backs, They may hear about it.
- Completely disregard them.
• Stay out of the mud with the pigs!
- You can’t win the fight; There is no point in trying that.
- You can't give them advice Because they’ll never listen.
- When they are crappy people they don’t deserve your compassion.
- Fake compassion leads to delusion.
- Don’t worry about revenge, the best way to get revenge is by living well
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Reading people becomes easier and easier with age. My wife and I just both noticed today a naturally happy person working at Walmart so we both complimented and thanked her for that. She said we made her day.
Aww I'm glad to know you gradually get better and better at it! :) I love those naturally happy people they make the world much better.
Mad, sad, or glad are our only choices.
Mad is generally counter-productive.
Sad is depressing.
So, I generally go with glad things aren't worse.
exactly! ahha Being glad is much better.
Be aware that laughing at things that would make most people mad or sad will get you some strange looks,....
True! It's bizarre isn't it?
No.
Stop trying to group people with your labels.
Labels that help describe people yes :)
I don't think limiting the type of people to 4 and adding labels with negative connotations to them helps describe anything except trying to de-humanize a "group" for a narrative to be pushed.
I could be wrong though.
I feel like you are partially right :) maybe that wasn't the best approach to writing my article
It's understandable.
As humans we look for patterns so it is a natural thinking process tbh.
Thank you for not ignoring me and sticking me in the evil person group.
:D
LOL! Agreed! The human brain does strange things.
What if I told you we are all of them.
I agree we are a bit of all of them. But I feel for some people, It consumes the bulk of their personality.
SIMPLY LOVE THIS!Thanks for sharing
No problem hehe :)
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