Lets Destroy Your Self Confidence!

in #life7 years ago

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Having Self Confidence just makes you conceited! When you are confident you will make everyone around you, See you as a total jerk! You can avoid people hating on you, By becoming less confident.

Become Jealous

You should feel threatened and crappy when people are doing better than you in life! There aren't enough slots for everyone to be successful. When other people are doing well, you should be hurt, And take it as personally as you can. They are only doing well to hurt you, And make you look bad. Their success makes them rude and impolite!
When you act out in jealousy, You show your friends and family your feelings towards what they are doing to you. And that the only person in this world who deserves success, Is you!
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Live In The Past!

If you've made mistakes in the past, You are a bad person.
You should always beat yourself up for those mistakes and never forgive yourself. It's unacceptable to be happy Because those mistakes you made never should have happened! You screwed up. Now punish yourself for it!

I constantly remind myself about the mistakes I've made. I have made mistakes in past relationships, and as a result, I don't ever deserve to have a healthy relationship. It would be ridiculous for me to feel like I deserve happiness.
Never forgive yourself for past mistakes.

Need Other Peoples Approval

When you do things that are different or scary, You should always seek the approval of everyone else around you! If they don't give you the approval you want, Then you should change what you are doing immediately and apologize. Everyone else's opinion is more important than yours ever will be! If you can't get people to love and approve you, You are doing something wrong! You must be a people pleaser and make everyone happy.
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Conclusion

Self-confidence is silly! It makes you a bad person. You fail to live up to others expectations; You may not get jealous, When you rightfully should and living in the present doesn't allow people to learn from all of their horrible mistakes!

This post is a joke!

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@lauralemons Drew me !
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I think perfectionist just lack the ability to find the perfection in everyone's differences. I'm self confident enough to appreciate my own individuality and appreciate other people for theirs and I'm self reflective enough to know when I'm being an asshole. I try to find the balance. :)

I neeeed your approval of this comment and all of my posts to have any self worth!

LOL.....couldn't help myself ;-)

WOW! You got me on that one ;)

Haha....walked right into that one girl! :-) I was being a wise@ss but always appreciate the support!

Great advice! Love the post, esp the part about living in the past, that's always a tough one. Thanks for sharing...

I wont limit my light because someone elses insecurity.
Kings & Queens make others around them better.
Great Content Beloved. 🙏

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We are responsible for our self-confidence. I look at it as a plant. If you don't care about it, it will eventually be attacked by various insects and microorganisms and without the water, it will die, leaving you fighting and struggling through your life. Watch that plant!

I agree, also water helps a great deal.

Hahahahahahahh!!!

Excellent!

I actually read your posts which is unusual! Maybe i need to have less confidence in you, to make sure ill read the next one ;) , :p

I only need to say, your article is on point.🏌🏾 Helping others only works when they don't return the favor by pulling you down in the process. Loving people doesn't require conformity, especially when it may be of the regressive type