Oh man you touch on some subjects that have me reading the whole thing in a heart beat.
I consider this as one of my big weaknesses... closure. It's something I've been really bad at.
I guess I'm just weak like that.
I always leave room for something to might maybe perhaps could just happen again, even though I SHOULD NOT.
I guess closure comes hard when you doubt and have uncertainties about yourself. So you have to first fix that about u.
Oh well I know I can't afford a psychologist lol
:)) I want to say that...it's ok!
I mean, we are all like that, little weaknesses creep up on us and it's harder to fight them at first but in time, you get better at knowing yourself and prevent a slippage.
The idea is that you must know, be sure that closure is the smartest thing to do. Sometimes, you need to look after number 1 :)
I would feel so much better if I knew that everyone has this issue buttt it has been proved to me that some people can close really fast. I attribute this to lack of compunction and I feel better right away
I actually have a lot of good memories of past relationships and not sure if I want to let them go. What if they make me happy to remember them, well kinda happy and sad at the same time. Would that mean I'm not ready for closure, would closure help? Closure to me seems kinda like amnesia, I just wouldn't remember at all.
Having the memories is absolutelly normal we all have and cherish them. However closing the relationship with the person is another thing. Leaving room in ur head in the hopes that one day history might repeat itself is not okay imo.
Think I'm ok then, just happy with the memories, that history might repeat itself is an impossibility, so don't even imagine that happening.
Haha you are definitely ok