No matter what you do, children will always judge their parents. In this case, what is left to do is easy. Prepare your child for the life and for the world the best you can 😀. How are you doing this? I am not in a position to advise anyone, as I have my own difficult moments 😅.

As long as it grows in a strong person, it will get to the point to understand why.
Trying to explain to our children, why we do everything we do now, is a mistake. They will not get it, and we may destroy that innocence they need 😉.

Speaking about parenting, it seems that your mom did a pretty good job 😀.