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RE: Stay Away from Negative People!

in #life7 years ago

A good post about positive people in your life, and definitely true for my experiences.

I t can be a little more complex than that, however (I am only using my own life as an example) .

I think it's a mix between the person you are naturally, and your upbringing (environment).

Using myself as the example, I grew up with 80% of my family, (including extended) being the stereotypical negative outlook on life naysayers, kind of people.

My nature is a very positive one, hence we aren't exactly close..

BUT, what I have noticed with my own behavior, is that when I am around negative people, I become very positive, and disregard their negativity (to their annoyance).
Obviously some psychological throwback to my family.

And, conversely enough, when I am around a positive groups of close friends, life always goes 'tits up', somehow.

It's way too complex to go into here, but these patterns of events have repeated themselves.

(Obviously I learned about them retrospectively. doh!)

(Still many thanks on the bx.th - you will be making money in commissions off me, I hope!)

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Thank you @lucylin for the long comment. I have a similar experience as you have and if you are a strong positive person, of course you are going to make some negative people crazy... If you are negative and want to change, that is another story.

I'm glad bx.th is useful for you, it has been great for me. Would you consider giving a witness vote to my friend @jerrybanfield?