WOW in return- thank you for your kind words and compliments! I showed him this post for his birhday; it only seemed fitting- beause like I said in my post, another thing that can't be wrapped up, but comes from the heart. I also shared with him your comment. He said said he wouldn't have changed a thing, and it wasn't about what he got, but how he felt; although we did get him some socks. lol. I have always been someone who can see the silver lining in things and see them for the positive impact they have, but lately I've started to try to practice habitual and consistient graditudes, mostly to help my husband as it is not as "natural" for him as it is for me- he has to work hard to redirect his thoughts. But wow, keeping attitude of gratitude releases SO much stress! I'm glad you count your blessings also, but although you may live comfortably, I know each life also has its own struggles. But- happiness isn't about a perfect life, its just about how you process the events of life. :) Again, thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment; it meant alot to both of us. I appreciate the blessings, and I heartly return them. :)