Marriage isn't hell if you choose the right person... and that means waiting until you know it is right. A lot of people I know rushed because they put too much time in already or the whole biological clock thing. The warning signs were there already... they just chose to ignore them. In the end... they are either miserable or divorced. I personally cant imagine being older without a life partner to spend it with. I am a paramedic and I see the difference In quality of life - those that are married are better off than those whom are not.

I speak with the exception of an abusive relationship; that is a very tough situation and I am sorry your friend feels stuck. But she needs to do what is best for her and her child... there is a better life and a better person for her - somewhere out there. I hope she gains the courage to step out and find it.