dont be masochistic

Hello friends of steemit Hope you are well, as every normal person tends to have problems at home, in classes or in my work, I consider that if you stumble with a stone this can teach you not to stumble with it again, but if we do it again and again What example would it teach us? Although sometimes there are things that hurt us, we always tend to repeat the same mistake for pleasure, because we like or feel satisfied, but if I stumble again with the stone would it be masochism? Let's talk about this topic that not only affects me but also many people around the world.

According to my dictionary the word masochism: it is the enjoyment or pleasure that we experience with an unpleasant or painful thought, situation or fact. "Their impulses generate feelings of guilt and indignity, accentuating their instinct to self-punishment and masochism."

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Their behavior is associated with the human psychology of giving or receiving pain, humiliation, submission or dominance contributing to sexual arousal. In short, a masochistic person is one who feels pleasure in suffering because she herself "applies" it.

We can put as an example: if we feel sad and do things that make us more sad and depressed that would be masochism. And as far as sexuality is concerned, he likes to be beaten, mistreated or humiliated.

Although all people go in search of pleasure always tend to be a little masochistic also for the simple fact of wanting more regardless of whether we are humiliated even if we do things well feeling unsatisfied.

One of the most known causes is the suffering that a person may have in his childhood, and that unconsciously accepts the pain as a demonstration of love and affection.

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Perfect, now that we are clear about the concept of masochism, I believe it is time for us to evaluate ourselves.

Many may say, "No, I am not a masochist, not at all" but let us begin to remember if at any point in our lives we were really submissive to any situation. If at some point we had to leave aside our will to do the work of another, then we were masochists.

If you spend your days trying to meet standards that do not fill you with satisfaction and that lead you to act in a way you do not want then you are a masochist.

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I am surprised that there are people who find a deep pleasure in feeling pain, in my case I do not like to suffer, nor be mistreated or humiliated in any way and I think like me there are many people who feel the same, but that would be matter Of each with respect. I simply try to feel good about what I do and what I think without trying to please others, otherwise I do it to feel pleased with myself.

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