Why is important friendship?

in #life7 years ago

Why is important friendship?

Everybody is wondering if it is better getting friends or being on your own. So I will share some point of view about it.
I think to get some friends is nice. The company is vital in a person life. We live in groups, teams or families. We always have contact with others. We belong in a specific society and that’s the key.
Choice your friends.
It’s crucial to choice your friends but it’s not like taking people and makes them in an instant your friends just because you want it. You have to behave as a friend and they’ll see you as real one. I was talking to a friend these days and we agreed in many points in choice the friends that is confidence.
Confidence is important in a friendship because you want a person to be in any moment of your life, it doesn’t matter if it is short time but the company of a friend is great. Even when everything is collapsing is right there where you don't want to be alone. So it depends of people and what they really want, don't they? But when you tell him or her something about your situation and you note that person understand very well and don't leave you with your problem and advise you to do the correct and feel peace you can note that having friends is love. You start to worry about him/her and you tell the correct, no matter that he gets upset but it’s vital to say it for his/ sake.

Well you know I've spent these weeks observing my around. We must find out who are really friends, because there are wolves wearing as sheep. They want to destroy you and other just want to see you suffer. Others just get away from you.
So, I think it's best having a few friends where you can share your feelings and they do too. I've seen others that it seems they spoke on another language, on indirect or codes and I think it is bad well for me it is. I had the opportunity when I could note it and I must be clear they are not my friend but it was interesting how they talked about me in front of me of course they are not be bad persons, I'll be honest in my story. I said a sentence that was weird and unintelligible to them and in fact is I mustn’t have said it in that moment because it was irrelevant and they switch instantly their behavior to me.
It’s cool talk, play, eat and share with friends Because is the company that I mean in moments that you need for example as I’ve already told you before. I talked to a friend about this and tell me that I was careless. Friendship is support each other.

I want you to know I found about friendship on internet from some sources.
–Jorge Luis Borges
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world that possibly is not born until they arrive, and it is only in this encounter that a new world can emerge."
-Ciceron
"What bigger thing than having someone you dare to talk to as yourself?"
-Jane Austen
"Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the blows of a disappointed love"

Great! It’s when we have a friend we are not alone. Actually as Jorge Luis Borges said a friend may be part of us and be us.
So, guess what? Look I search in the bible. Reason for the importance of friendship
Proverbs 18:24 ESV
“A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 ESV
9Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. 10 For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!
11 Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? 12 And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him--a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

So, it was amazing! God tells us that about friendship. We must be carefully and make friends and don’t forget to behave as real one. I hope you like this post I did with love because I think so much in share interesting things that help us and try to get better.

In my humble opinion when you have nothing money and everybody is against you maybe because you are a good and correct person and that person you think is your friend stay with you in your worst time. Believe me THAT PERSON is your real friend.
It is not a coincidence that you read this. This is made for you. Have a good Day. God bless us.