It is my pleasure to tell you about my culture, mam. Let me summarize my answers.

1. The first thing you asked is how death is handled where we live? The answer is the dead body is brought home and kept there for 5-6 hours for the closed ones to see him/her for the last time. The dead boy is then washed and sprayed with perfumes and taken to a prayer hall where prayers are offered and the body is buried afterwards.
2. The women are mostly taken to hospitals before birth so that are no complications when they are giving birth to kids. The females doctors present there handle the process.
   The below of one of my article will also provide you a lot of insight into our culture and traditions.
   https://steemit.com/life/@mmasim/tribalogy-part-1-pashtun-tribe