Seeking attention is natural human behavior. A child got this the moment he comes to life in this outside world. So we can't get ourselves out form this act. We need attention to feel loved, cared and happy. Also to gain something attention is a must. Not only personal attention, but we also need business attention, brand attention and many more. But when we make this 'natural act' an unhealthy practice, the problem begins!

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How?

We are going through social media, we are consuming a huge amount of contents, products every single day. To gain attention and also to gain others' attention we try to behave differently, we try to show off, we become fake. And all these things lead us towards 'Attention-seeking Syndrom'. Where we try to seek attention because of jealousy when we feel threatened and have no self-control. Also, this leads to low self-esteem. So it's totally relatable how this is hampering our life. A matter of fact is, we are still in ignorance with this behavior, which can cost is more in the long term.

We need attention to gain something and to be loved. So attention is a must, as I have said earlier. I'm sharing some of my tips on what I feel can help to get rid of the attention-seeking syndrome.

People have different preferences. If some of them don't put attention to us, we should be okay with that. We should have self-control and we should work our self-esteem. Our self-power can boost up, we don't need any unhealthy practice to gain it.

Prepare for the unexpected. If you are a public speaker the ignorance of people can break your heart. But preparing our minds to accept the unexpected and the truth can make us feel strong and go forward.

Keep it moving. If we can't gain attention, that's okay. That's not the end of our world. We can do so many other things in other ways. And continuously working on it can be a huge help.

Not getting attention hurts, no matter if it's from a special person or from your professional side. But I hope those points gonna help to work on it and keep it simple!