Love is a process

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Asking what a woman brings to the table in my opinion is the result of a generation of men that are lazy & have lost purpose. It's the stupidest thing I've ever heard really. Of course certain things should be observed when considering a wife like cleanliness, ability to manage money, her maturity, prioritizing skills, etc. However I've always believed that a woman expands and grows what's given into her. You cannot expect the earth to yield produce for you, if you do not tend to it. Good soil(A comfortable healthy home that provides her security) Constant watering(healthy teaching), sunlight(enlightenment), shade(Protection), are things that need to be done before you get to see the fruits of your labor.

When harvest season comes the earth provides all that you'd need and hope for. I don't find it a coincidence that we call this "Mother Earth/Nature". I've always taken this illustration as the role of a man. When you find a GOOD woman, you will never get the full portion of her grace until you put the work in. That's what's wrong with men today, not many are willing to put the work in. They just want to reap the benefits of a good woman that's "wife material" without sowing first. Ya'll got the game f'd up & now we have a generation of women that are quite frankly tired of our shit.

One last thing for the men that may claim that the women nowadays aren't worth it. Whether you believe in the bible, evolution, or whatever other theories. When you study them you'll see that before humans came on the scene earth had already been flourished. Animals, plant life, the earth had what they needed. At some point in history they realized that they could not continue just taking from the earth. Hence agriculture was born. So in like manner a GOOD WOMAN already has what you need, and you men know this. However to continue to get what you need you need to give. You need to cultivate! Put the work in gentleman, stop being lazy! ❤💕

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