Maybe, it's time to turn the page

in #life5 years ago

Hello everyone! Hope you all are Hale & hearty and had a great weekend. I'm here for some random talk, still don't know what I'm going to say.feeking gloomy so thought to talk with you all;

We human are social animal and it's our tedency we need someone to talk, to share our feelings, it may be good feeling or not. Even our happiness,our success never complete till we celebrate it with our love once. We depend on many for our daily life. We can not live in isolation. If someone says that he can live alone, it's not 100% true. No one is totally alone. Yes, he can spend most of time alone but somewhere he need someone.
And I think we all have couple of people in our life with whom we can share our feelings. But what Happened when u noticed that you are ignored. If you are ignored by one person,may be there are many other reasons but what happened when you countinues ignored by difference people.

If you notice that you find yourself ignored and alone a lot when you don't want to be, than what you have to do?
Nothing is worse than feeling ignored. When people ignore you , it might be time to evaluate your behavior.
Ask yourself ,why do they?

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May be you can find some reasons, like you are too needy , don't give them their space which they want and need, you became so negative and always spread negativity and always complain them about your problems, don't try to listen them , don't try to celebrate their happiness and so on.
maybe, you are going through a hard time, but Life is the set of challenges, and we've to fight ( yes, we need help and guidance)

But usually what mistakes we made?
May be that time we overwhelmed with our emotion and situations and become so negative. Not be able to see another side. And overthinking made it more worse. We Continue criticised them who ignore us, and always complain them , you thought that why he/she ignore me ,am I not important for them i love them, they are so important for me, but this time why they do this? and You overjudged their behavior, pushed them too hard Nd drive them away.
And when they went away , we realised what we've lost, may be at this time we've lost our most valuable contact. And now what we did?
Start criticised yourself, cried and punished yourself and also might push people away because you already feel rejected and unworthy .although you Already go through tuff situation and it make situation more hard. But you have to know that maybe , it's time to turn the page
Because it is just a situation or maybe it is just your thought , and both can be changed.
Well it's not easy to turn the page or move on , but believe me once we've decided, we can do it. Because that situation will be change and if the contact which you've lost, if you are really valuable for them they will come, you need to give them some space, or if not, let them go.

Our Present is so powerful and at present we can make our future. So you just need to change your perspective, have to a examine yourself rather than criticised someone else or yourself.

Believe in yourself, be positive and give time to yourself and most important love yourself.

Everything will be fine, even everything is fine, just need to change our perspective:-)

Lots of love
@mysteriousroad

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What you said is true but I believe that you missed out something important from the equation. You need to think from the other persons perspective as well, what he or she May be going through. But it's easier said than done. You may not be in receiving mode always and it's very difficult to understand what the other person is feeling. The best thing is self evaluation and getting stronger than before...

And just like you said all you have to do is ask for help. Then it's upto the other person to reply...

:-)

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Turning the page is so important - but sometimes, we find it hard to do.

Yes! But once we have done it...we realised that how fool we were before and that was the best decision to move on :))

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