Do you think if someone behaves badly, you should treat him well?

in #life10 months ago

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Yes, even if someone misbehaves, we should treat him well. Remember that our brain is a thought processing machine. If you misbehave, his reaction will be that you will dwell on that bad incident for a long time. You would think that I should have said this in protest against his bad use, or that he needed to be abused, that the abuse should have been so or so. Beating him was the right thing to do. It seems that if we get him again, we will have to teach him properly. He needs to be disciplined with his friends.

Such thoughts will keep running in your head for many hours or days, as a result of which your daily work will be disturbed, such negative thoughts may cause various hormones to be released in the body, headache, blood pressure may increase. Maybe your abuser thinks the same way. Let him think and suffer. Be positive and forgive yourself. Then there will be no stress in your mind and body. As a result, you will be well and able to continue your work. Basically, try to reduce the amount of time you spend feeling upset when someone misbehaves. For example, try to reduce your anxiety time from two days to one day, from one day to 12 hours, to 1 hour. Moreover, the one who behaved badly may regret that you treat him well.

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