Hope; hold on or give up?

in #life7 years ago (edited)

 


Hope is an optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one's life  or the world at large...... Source

Hope keeps you happy and away from depression even when things around you are not really fine. It keeps you optimistic. It makes you live above the current situation with the exception that things are going to be okay. It alters your behavioural reaction to present circumstances. 

Is holding on to hope a good thing? 


Yes, it is. At least that is the reason those who bought Steem for $0.15 did not dump it when it got to $1. Lol! Giggles.

Being hopeful things are going to get better is a good way to live a positive lifestyle. Hope fuels our engines when everything else seems to be against us. Hope keeps us warm no matter how cold it is. Hope lights our paths in the darkest moments. 

Is holding on to hope always good? 


Mmmmm! Well, it is not always a good thing to do. 

At least all those who hoped Bitconnect would get to $1,000 would be giving themselves a dirty slap why they didn't sell when it got to its all-time high. Lol! 

In life's journey, it is very common to find bumps and roadblocks on the way. Yes, persistence pays most times, however, it is very important to know when it is prudent to give up on hope. 

Yes, giving up on hope won't make you a failure, rather it will save you from further destruction. When you are constantly encountering setbacks in a particular thing, it is most prudent not to shy away from those things, but to sit down and make constructive calculations. Yes, giving up on a particular career, relationship or business line might be the best thing to do at a certain moment. 

People remain in sinking a boat and get drowned with it just because they refused to give up on hope. Some endure and probably die in an abusive relationship because they were hopeful things will get better someday. 

Hope makes some men comfortably remain a pretty girl's "food dude" (she calls you only when she is hungry or in need) and makes some girls happily accept the status of being a man's "sex toy" (the only time he can be with you is when he wants to have sex).

To be happy and successful in life, we must learn to maintain a balance. Moderation is required in all we do. Be hopeful, but also be open to change. Do not give up on hope too easily, however, when it is clear the ship cannot be rescued, find your exit as quickly as you can.  Sometimes, don't even wait for it to be very clear, because the exit may not contain all those wanting to leave. 

Over to you, how has holding on to hope helped you or cost you a thing? Please leave your feedback in comments below. 


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Depending on the situation we find ourselves, we should know when to hope, so we don't miss out on a better opportunity.

Also, it's always nice to stay positive.

This saying "hope defared makes the heart sick". Wisdom is the principal thing the bible says. Wisdom should help you turn around before your heart gets sick. You make good points here.

Holding up to hope has costed me much......
Am still coming back to this comment because I want to write something regarding this

Thanks. I shall be waiting.

Holding on has made me gain and loss. In the crypto world, I have won some trades and in others I have lost. Ultimately what makes the difference is knowing when to exit and quit hoping.

Thanks dear. Knowing when to exit makes the difference. Thank you for your comment here.

You are welcome dear.

Be hopeful, but also be open to change

I am hopeful o. I hold some crypto that are dancing konko below. I am praying for the bullish market. Also, I am stilll hopeful on Nigeria.👍👍

Hahahahaha! Trade with caution brotherly. Thanks for your comment here.

Holding up to hope is very good but sometime it make the heart to weaken @ogowinner

It is good sometimes, but not always. Thanks for reading.

Great piece firstly.

For me HOPE and LUCK work hand-in-hand. Personally, I'm not a big fan of "hoping".. It helps one stay optimistic but at the same time, leads to procrastination.

How?
Exactly, i just hope sbd rises so i can sell higher, now it's $6, that's not fair at all

I should have sold it o but because i hope it will grow higher, I procrastinated the sale.

No doubt, it keeps the mind optimistic but it in most cases turns out bad. Then when it turns out good, you hear stuffs like you are lucky o.

I doubt i want to be a victim of luck. I want to earn for every work or hardwork i put to achieve an aim. So lets hope, i made sense

winks
Best regards
Xpressng.

Wow! Awesome comment. Moderation is all that is required. Thanks for reading.

Yea... sure , moderation.
Thanks for sharing. You got yourself a new fan.

It affected me weeks ago
Thanks @ogowinner

I love reading your posts.
Judging by my personal experience, HOPE has more benefits than its disadvantages.
This is so because when we give room to HOPE, we enjoy the patience it offers us, which most of the time is what is required.
But regardless, just as your post illustrated, we need to recognize the right time to give up on HOPE based on the circumstances we find ourselves in.

And I love this comment. Knowing the right time to exit will save us a lot of headache.

Thanks for your comment here.

You are welcome.

Hope is really important nowadays. It helps us survive hard days and let us last to these better days.
Anyway i really enjoy your posts!

You are welcome! ;)