Love the post. The biggest error people with low self esteem do, is to not properly account for their flaws. They tend to just hate their flaws and say to themselves "I'm this" and "I'm that", "I'm so stubborn! I'm never going to change!" Labelling themselves as a self protective mechanism. If you realize that it doesn't really matter to the world who you are, and that there is no need to rationalize it or protect it - you can accept your flaws and deal with them. It is certainly possible to fix low self esteem. I tried to build a great physique to gain self esteem, but it didn't work. Now, im 36 with more or less a dad bod, and I've never had self esteem like I do today. I basically told myself to fuck the past, fuck everyone I dont care for or deserve my respect, and let's fucking go for a dance world.