Life Lessons: Is it complicated? Become a Giver.

singhnishantce (36)in #life • 7 years ago (edited)

Almost each one of us has gone through a phase in life when we feel that our relationships are falling apart.
Each one of us has either lost a relationship in life or have one that’s complicated (of course, there are some exceptions though).
And there might be ’N’ number of reasons for that.

Sometimes we let it go and sometimes we fight to make it work.
Sometimes we just don’t care and sometimes we care incomparably.

Remember the time when you got into the relationship with that person.

Everything seemed so perfect.
Think about how much you wanted that person to be in your life.
More than the food and sleep or oxygen per se that is required for you to survive.
It made you the happiest person in the universe.
And you didn’t care about anything else that time and jumped at your place and said to yourself,

“This is it. This is that ONE DAY for which I had been living for”

And yes, it was the time when all those emotions rushed through your body at once and at the same time made you feel at peace.
The mornings never felt so wonderful. Otherwise all this time, you cared about your sleep more than the morning but now you are looking through your window at 5 am after a long night which was too short for you to complete the conversation that you had with your loved one and you start relating everything good that is happening around you and to you and say to yourself that it’s all because of him/her. And the petty things that used to bother you don’t seem to exist in your life anymore.

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Just like the feeling that you get when a small baby holds your finger with his/her little hand.
It’s gives so much of love, warmth, joy, peace and any great feeling that you can think of.
Got goosebumps. Right?

So, now it’s time to look at your loved ones in their eyes and say,

“I may not be perfect for you.
But, you are the one I’m living for.
When I was all messed up in my life,
You came and took away all those worries
And everything fell into place so perfectly.
And even when everything was okay,
You made me feel like I’m on the top of the world.
There’s no one in this entire universe who can

ever (I repeat) … ever replace you.

You are the one who made me smile.
You are the one who made me dream even during the day.
You are the one who is the reason of all my happiness."

And yes… how can I not tell you

How much I love you…

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Because all it takes to make your relationship work is to give in.

Give in your all.

Become a giver in the relationship.
Hold the person with both your hands and kiss on the forehead.
Hold hands and talk.
Talk till the time both of you start feeling the same which you felt on the very first day.
Become the person you were on that day.
Do the little things.
Spend time together.
Make them understand their importance in your life.
Look in the eyes and you will see how much love you have in your heart to give.
Don’t be so harsh on your relationship.

Always remember that the same person was there by your side when you were alone.
No one else believed in you.
That one person did.

And that one person deserves a little time to be spent together no matter how busy you are.
Because when that one person will not be there, you will be the one to regret.
And both you will suffer and will miss each other so much.

I hope this post will save your relationship.
And if it does, don’t forget to share your story in the comments.
I would be glad to listen to you.

And even if it doesn’t, always remember that you can still make it work.

Just don’t let the person go away.
Never give up. Remember to give in.

Become a GIVER.

Thanks for stopping by.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

NISHANT SINGH

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