Short moral story
Once a farmer said bad to his neighbors, but when he realized his mistake later he went to a person. He asked the person to and ask - " how to withdraw his words".
The person said to the farmer, "Gather lots of feathers and keep them in the middle of the city." The farmer did the same thing and then reached the person.
Then the person said, "Now go and bring those wings back and bring it back"
The farmer went back, but till then all wings had flown around the air. And the farmers came empty handed to the person. Then the saint told him that the same thing happens with the words you said, you can easily remove them from your mouth, but you can not even take it back if you want to.
What is learned from this story:
Before saying something bitter, remember that after saying good and bad your words of doing nothing can not be withdrawn. Yes, you can ask for forgiveness from the person and ask for it, but you should also ask for it, but human nature is something that happens, anything happens, the person gets hurt somewhere else.
When you say something bad to someone, it hurts to hurt him but later he gives more trouble to you. What is the benefit from harassing yourself, it is better than it is to remain silent.
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