Inspiration: Being a winner is not easy

Who doesn't want to be a winner? I believe almost everyone wants to be a winner. But it was not easy to be a winner. Because there are things we do without our awareness making us unable to become winners and instead become victims. One of them is our rejection of the inconvenience we experience.

And have you ever felt disappointed, anxious, worried, upset that led to anger and stress? Or maybe even often? What is it usually caused by? For me, and one of them is not willing to accept the fact that what I hope is not achieved. And that is sometimes unconscious.

For example, without realizing it, I have refused to do business. And at that time my Muslim clothing business was decreasing in performance. What characteristics do I reject? When that happened I complained by asking not only myself and those closest to me, but also to God.

Why is my business getting worse? and even though they have attended many seminars and business training and applied what they have obtained. Though already active in the business community. Even though several times joined the mentoring program. Even though other people who do the same can advance their business. And what's my fault?

So, when we then get answers that point to blaming other things outside ourselves, then that's when we become victims or victims. When we are in this position, we will be difficult to be
winner or victor.

So it is not surprising when the discomfort / failure comes, then we wonder constantly because of disappointment and envy of what others have achieved, without trying to earnestly find a solution. and that can ultimately make us angry and stressed.

And even better we realize that we deserve the discomfort / failure before it happens. This helps us more readily accept when it happens. So we will not feel disappointed, anxious, worried, angry, and stressed when the discomfort comes.

Hopefully what I say can be useful