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you missed the point. i figured u would. i'll state it again in simpler terms. psychologically, female beauty, however u define it, is equal to male financial security. would you still want to get married if divorce made you ugly? maybe, but you'd also be less likely to do it.

guys: divorce is likely to ruin you financially. that will make you less attractive to members of the opposite sex. be careful.

Haha, thanks for the "simple terms" and your warning. I think we are living on two different planets :-)) But that's OK. Take care.

My whole thing is - I'd rather spend thousands of dollars on a house downpayment with my girlfriend than get married... and she's cool with it :D

It's crazy though, everyone I know my age has crazy student loan debt, so spending money on a wedding really doesn't make sense for any of them haha