What prevents you from being lucky?

Everyone in life has situations where he can only exclaim in his heart: "Well, it's the same as bad luck!" A bus leaves from under the nose, which goes every hour; in the store, before our very eyes, they buy the last thing we need as air; the boss comes into the office at the very moment when we paint his defects in paint ... With each person, without exception, from time to time something like this happens.

If such "bad luck" develops, as if on purpose, one to one, we usually talk about a "band of failures", but we firmly know: the black band will sooner or later be replaced by white, you just have to wait and wait for this moment.

But sometimes it seems to us that the whole world has taken up arms against us and has been persecuting unsuccessfully. Usually in this series of constant bad luck there are no terrible, global failures, but the very sequence of minor troubles annoys not worse than one severe injury. Gradually begins to seem that in life there is nothing good ... In such cases, psychologists say that a person develops a loser syndrome.

Loss syndrome is a way of avoiding life difficulties. And most of the hardened losers are people, alas, unpleasant. Therefore, they gradually lose friends and acquaintances (and after that they just make sure that they are not lucky in this either).