Lover/Loser

Lover

Somebody that you love, and especially in the romantic/sexual sense. A sweetheart.

Warning: For every day of joy, there is one of woe, if you get my drift. The more you love someone, the more he makes you cry, or makes you crazy.

Still, those parts can be worked past. Lovers provide emotional support, shelter in a storm.
"Erik and I are partners."
"Business partners?"
"No, he's my life partner."
"Your what?"
"You know, my lover, my darling."
"Uuhhh..."
"We're gay, stupid. That's what. He's my boyfriend.

Loser

A "loser" is someone who doesn't know what they have and fucks it up.

They are always making bad choices and fuck up their and everyone's lives around them.

They are Losers...

Also know as Dumb Fucks, Idiots, Fools, Dumb Asses, Dick Heads, etc.
"Reiner is such a loser. He had a beautiful wife and children at home but had to cheat on them all."