THATS THE GOLDEN RULE!
Everything that happens has no meaning. you give a meaning to it. Bad weather = bad, divorce = bad, losing someone = bad... right?
NO! It just is as it is. It has no meaning, you give the meaning to it. You are in full control if something destroys you or makes your life better.
A lot of our believes whats good or bad was tought to us by our parents and by television. forget this shit! dont wanna feel bad? control your thoughts.
it is what it is - its life.
Steepshot