Life has had many descriptions, positive, negative or just descriptions. Where they frame it in the two completely negative or positive extremes but in reality it is a combination of both, once I read a book where they talked about an excess of illusion of reality which showed that most fantasies hurt us. That is possible because of the ideas of ease, an example is the belief of "Ask and it will be given", many people spend their lives asking and nothing comes and that is why they suffer. Another is "If I'm good, I'll be fine", this illusion is so wrong that many are cruel to others and others good to them. The world is so hard that there are people who have never smoked and they get cancer, others smoke all their lives and nothing happens, that's the hard way.

But not only does it get there, the time you lose asking can be used to work for what you want, do not suffer for what you do not have come. Drop all the illusions, enough of so many lies just go to live and laugh a lot that the road is short and many experiences.