Grief and loss : a relationship so inseparable

I have never seen anyone who grieves when he hasn't lost a thing.

Oh! I said a thing? Well add a person.

In this life you can and may lose anything or anyone (hang on abit before you come for me... I'm not saying that person will die) at any time and anywhere and anyhow but you must not lose yourself.

What do I mean by this?

As we grow, we struggle with chosing what we want to become. Yes, I said what because many a time it is not about the personality we struggle with but the person we seem to be modeling ourselves after. Don't get it twisted friend.
When I say personality isn't what we struggle with, I say this because we don't even know who who is. Forgive me, what who is.

When asked as a child of the future, the question usually is about what and not who. I've thought about it and I can only confess that it is simply a measurement of what we can see in terms of doing and not what we experience in terms of relationship.

Sadly, as we grow each day we begin to search for who we want to be. We've been separated within as there now seem to be a dysfunctional system and a battle within that we alone can realise early enough.

We begin to grieve.

We grieve because we're searching for something

Sometimes we turn to God who is actually the one who knows who you truly are
Some turn no where but cry and weep and mourn

Don't listen to the quiet yet loud voices
Don't heed to the voiceless voices that speak to you

Don't weep

• Talk to him : everyone believes in one deity or supreme being. Go talk to him. Have a good conversation where you ask questions and listen to him.

• Talk to you : nobody can find you except you yourself. You cannot locate your locus if you don't go in search of your locus.

• Talk to them
  

You must always surround yourself with people who will add to you. Your circle of friends and associates matter a great deal.
Who are these people you may ask.
You know them but just incase you don't, seek and you shall find.

This day, I want you to know that you are within you

Go reclaim yourself

P. S. The title has nothing to do with the body.