I'm totally oblivious to all things tech. My hubby is a pro at network security.

So, I don't even try to learn more complicated things. I just ask him for help when I get stuck, and he does his magic.

Don't think it's a bad thing necessarily. We're all different and have special gifts, but... I get what you mean. Outsourcing whatever isn't your zone of genius is not a problem. Telling yourself that others are better than you, and then feeling incompetent as a result is.

It's great you became aware of what's really holding you back! Thoughts in your mind. And now you know you can change them ;) Good start, @ashleykalila!