why it is a bad idea to commit suicide

death is not the answer. It doesn't solve anything, as a matter of fact, death is the beginning of an end. you don't have to die to be free from all the troubles of life. you can also live a free life and enjoy the benefits of living without killing yourself. if at any point in time you feel you have been mistreated by the one you love or you have been heartbroken, all you need to do is relax and think of the following.

you are unique

contrary to what they will tell you on a daily basis, i want you to know that you are unique and there is no one on the face of the earth that can replace you. you are you and no one on earth can look like you. people can only try to be like you but they can never be like you. you are who you are and the world only has an original copy of you and it can only be found in you.

you are the source of someone's joy

even if people treat you bad, tell you all sort of things that you are not worth it, you are not worth loving, you are not up to their standards, just remember that you are the source of someone's joy. by merely seeing you, somebody's day is complete. if you can't live for yourself, live for others.

you are an answered prayer

if only your parents could take their time to explain to you how they had to wait patiently for you to emerge. how your mum had to struggle in the labour room for hours just to bring you forth, how she had to scream in pains just to keep you alive, you will not be quick to end that life. your parents had to wait for you for nine whole months.

you are a winner

the sperm that formed you had to travel and arrive to fertilize the egg at the right time. it had to win that battle for you. remember the sperm cells were in billions and only you won the race. for the sake of that sperm cell that formed you, do not just end your life.

suicide is not the answer, if you are hurt, cry, if you are sad, bear it. it only takes time before everything takes shape.