A passage I really like:
A passage I really like:
In life, there are always various imperfect things. At this time, one needs to learn to appropriately lower standards and not be too fussy about certain things.
Only by giving up being overly critical and picky about oneself can one obtain the true self and find happiness and joy.
Many times, unhappiness is not getting too little, but being too fussy. What some people pursue all their lives is just a symbol of desire, like a mirage, and in the end it is all in vain.
You should know that the purpose of life is to discover beauty, create beauty, and enjoy beauty. Instead of staring at unachievable limits and distant dreams and torturing oneself, and finally falling into a frantic state, one can only make things difficult for oneself.
Pursuing absolute perfection and being overly critical of life will only lead one further and further away from happiness. In severe cases, there will be no good results for the entire future. Therefore, it is understandable to pursue excellence within one's own ability, but insisting on being flawless is asking for trouble.
There is no absolute perfection in life, and there will always be disappointments. If one is picky, complains, and is overly critical, then the hard days will continue. Only by letting go, facing it calmly, then accepting it and finding ways to overcome it can one find happiness again.
We should learn to give up prejudice and accept setbacks and hardships with a peaceful state of mind, so as to find peace of mind.
Life is short, like a meteor streaking across the sky. Why be so demanding of results? Endless picking and criticizing will only add more troubles and can only prove that you are a weakling in life.
A person who does not know how to cherish the happiness in life and does not pay attention to the various beautiful sceneries in life, even if he has more money and glory and a lofty status, his life is destined to be painful and dull.
Change what can be changed and accept the imperfect calmly, so as to obtain a free life.
Put down being picky and overly critical, and give yourself a sense of calm. You will find that life is full of joy.