Journey of being a Single Mom
"Journey of being a Single Mom"
This is not based on my experience. I never had one. But as I've heard the story behind a friend of mine, as what she said, it is really never that easy being a single mother. Actually she is the sister of my partner. On her first baby, she feels like no pain upon seeing her beautiful baby.
In her everyday living, as she goes to work, thinking what her baby was doing while she is away. She could never not to think of her. It was a perfect one, but when the time came that she and the father of her first baby didn't work the relationship they had, they both decided to broke up, but still manage to be friends for the baby. The custody of her baby goes to the father. Hard on her part, yet it was okay for her for the future of her daughter, because at that time, she didn't have money to support, so she decided to let the father got the custody. She still can visit anytime whenever she wants to.
Even if I don't have one, I feel her. It is really never that easy to be away from your daughter. She is striving to make money, just to have and give the support of what the needs and wants of her daughter. As the time goes by, she met another man, and they both have a beautiful daughter,
She taught that the man that she met the second time was the one, yet again, it was not a healthy relationship. The father of her second baby, had another affair. At first, she ignore it, because the guy, says sorry and never do it again. But when the time that she caught on her very own eyes, that was the time she decided to move out, and got the baby away. She never got away the rights of the father, they both still have in good terms but it was just for the sake of the baby. They also do still have that good relationship of the parents of the father of her second baby.
For now, my friend is studying as caregiver. When she goes into school, the baby was in the care of her mother. Both her daughters, serves as her inspiration to push through to her life and never give up in what will be the obstacles that she will encounter.
