12 Signs He Is Not In Love With You, You’re Just Convenient

in #love7 years ago

I just want to share to you this post that I read from the internet especially to those women out there who are experiencing these signs at some point in their relationship.

Girls/women can post comments if you have experienced some of the signs and share how you feel and what you do about it.

Boys/men out there, you can write comment if you agree that if you did that sign it only shows that you are not really in to that someone or comment if you have any violent reaction.

You can read my post or if you want you can check out the post here on this link : http://sarcasm.co/signs-not-love-just-convenient/

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Want to know whether he is in love with you or you’re just convenient. Then follow these signs. You will get your answers

1. He never opens up emotionally

Without the pure feeling of love, one can’t open up to someone. Boys only consider tearing their heart out of someone they share their soul with.

2. He only seems close when he wants s3x

S3x is something that can totally change a man’s behavior which is why he acts all cute and sweet when he is craving for some wild fun.

3. He keeps in touch with his ex(s)

A man with no emotions towards you can never get over his ex. Because he is not sure about you, therefore, he keeps a backup. And you don’t need any other signs to know that he is just a jerk who is playing around with you.

4. You sometimes feel like a stranger around him

You can never feel that warmth and concern around a person who has got no interest in you or your love. Just your body is making him stick around.

5. He only knows you on a surface level

He never struggles to explore you when he just considers you convenient. Your man has no love feelings towards you. Note these signs.

6. He always walks away from an argument

Because he thinks you’re just convenient and it is useless to talk over love things with a person who doesn’t mean anything to him.

7. He never seems to care about where the relationship is going

This relationship, gurl, is like a game for him. He doesn’t give a sh*t about it. What other signs do you need?

8. He never seems concerned about you

He would never try to protect you or show care and love towards you. Because, it’s not his fault, that jerk just doesn’t feel that way.

9. He spends more time with friends than you

Because who would like to spend time with someone who is just convenient for them. Obviously, he would prefer his friends over you

10. He never seems invested in the moment

You know that moment when you arrange a candle light dinner with an extreme love for both of you. And he doesn’t even seem excited? I feel you, gurl.

11. You have never met his family

Have you met his family? No? Well, that’s because he’s not serious enough to admit that he is in a relationship with you. This is because he doesn’t have those deep love feelings for you. You’re just convenient. Accept it!

12. You have just got an overall bad feeling

He never makes you feel special. And at a corner of your heart, you’re all aware that these signs clearly say that he is not your one. But you still struggle through that bad feeling

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Men are complicated creatures, they can't be bound by few rules as they're unpredictable. I see what you've wrote there and maybe a few of them are correct but they're not universal rules, everybody is different and unique they go by their own understanding. Thanks for sharing.

Even if I am a girl, I can agree on that at some point. Men are only human, some are really like the one that is on the post, but I think some men may do some of the signs right there but that doesn't mean that they do not love their significant others. I am just saddened to know that there are a lot of men nowadays are like that and justify or prove what's on the post.

Men are no more or less complicated as women. Neither of them are specially mysterious either, so typically you can find out some really good general guides of how to handle with men and women, even though special cases do exist.