What is love and what are the ways to recognize it as real?

Maybe you have experienced love and affection for a certain person. In this situation, every time you hear his name or that person calls you, your heart beats and your hands sweat when he is close to you. You may think that there is only this person in the whole world, but how do you know that you are really in love? How do you know if this is a real feeling or not? In this article, we want to explain what love is and what are the ways to recognize true love.
The three stages of love
Dennis Neder, the author of Being a Man in a Woman’s World, says: “Love has three stages: the stage of infatuation, the stage of bonding, and the stage of dating. "By knowing these three steps, you will know whether your love is real or not."

According to Dr Nader, the stage of mania is when you can not wait to be with him. This is the romantic and imaginary stage of love. This is the stage that people refer to as true love, but this stage disappears after a short time.
The second stage is the bonding stage. During this stage, you try to get to know the other person and adjust all the different plans of your life based on him. If you continue this stage, you will gradually enter the third stage, which is called the acquaintance stage.

In the dating phase, you make arrangements for the other person to attend, and you eventually get married. You will gradually understand how the person in front of you feels about different topics and what he enjoys. You also re-focus on your personal life, your paths and your goals. According to experts, "true love" starts here.
What is the definition of "true love"?
According to a famous quote from Love Story, love means you should never have to apologize, but when experts are asked about true love, they pause and think. Maybe it's because true love has different definitions for different people.

"True love means wanting the other person's health, well-being and happiness to be greater than your health, well-being and happiness," says Dr Nader. "When you are careful about your words, thoughts and actions, especially if you try to make the behaviour pleasing to the person in front of you, you are actually in love."

Says Christiane Northrup, author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause: "True love happens when you get enough of the other person. "Let it become what it can be with the facilities and time it needs."

Conversely, if someone tells you, "If you love me, you must," this is not true love. According to Dr Nertrop, this type of love is within the control of the individual and according to metaphysical beliefs is in the second chakra (sexual chakra). But true love originates in the fourth chakra and is easily recognized by unconditional support.

Says Dr Kathleen Hendrix and Dr Gay Hendrix (authors of Eternal Love): "True love arises when a person moves from an unconscious commitment to a conscious commitment. When people say having a relationship is really hard work; "This is an expression of unconscious commitment."

Commitment means that you show your true self to your partner and support him/her at all times.

According to Dr Laurie Moore, all love comes from an open heart. When you are together, there is this openness and security at the same time. But the person you love may not necessarily be your partner.
There are 9 ways to recognize true love

1. You feel good
   A good relationship will bring you a good feeling.

2. You like to spend time with your partner
   You do not need to be with others or look for excuses to stay away from each other. You enjoy all the moments you are together. Even if you are silent.

1. Respect your partner
   "I'm proud of hearing about your partner and saying things like, 'My wife is great at singing and singing.' If you find that you are constantly talking about yourself, you have not paid attention to your spouse or relationship.

2. Your partner's thoughts are interesting to you
   You ask your spouse what he or she thinks is important. It does not matter if he does not agree with you.

3. You accept the unusual characteristics of your partner
   Everyone has their characteristics. Even you! If your partner has a pleasant or tolerant attitude, you are fine. If this feature bothers you, you need to be careful about the type of relationship you have.

4. You feel safe
   You are not afraid to lose your partner.

5. You have no explanation for being together
   Many people have to be together because they have coordinated their lives. But ask yourself if you want to be together. If the answer is yes, then continue to be together. But if the answer is no, then there is a problem. You may not be ready.

6. Do not compare your partner with others
   There are always people who are prettier, smarter, and healthier than your spouse. But you are not worried, because you want to be with him.

Pay attention to your relationships. Is your love real?