MANAGING QUARRELS IN A RELATIONSHIP OF TWO

Friends are going to for once be enemies, but their resilience in what they believe in is what keeps and binds them together again.

Do we fight?

Yes

Must we fight?

Yes

Why do we fight?

I leave you to answer that

Fight is almost a requisite to testing how genuine love is.

We should have a clear mindset about why we quarrel or fight. We fight to make up not break up.

Looking through the lenses of the two people involved, one might not totally say that deciding to stay with each other especially at the moment of quarrel is easy because I believe that moment of tension is when the heart does not even permit other thoughts of love or affection in anyway except the raving anger to want to continue in the fight.

Have you been there before like I have?

There are things to watch out for when you are at loggerheads with anyone.

• What you say
• How you say it

Watching these two is most likely because you can not take them back after they have dropped off your jaw. So, you don't blame yourself after a reconciliation, you must learn to watch it and take heed.

Common, if that's solved, let's fight.

The center point of our quarrels should be love and love alone. So when we miss the mark, the love that binds us brings us together.

We are a people of love and we shouldnt just deviate from the joy that loving brings.

Love is key.

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