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RE: A Guide for Men: How to Make Sex Not Awkward
Maybe I need to go read up on what the hell happened with Aziz. The little snippet about shoving fingers down a throat sounds beyond fucking strange.
This is all good info, though I would figure that almost all if is common sense. Then again, a lot of people lack common sense these days.
An anonymous 23 year old woman named 'Grace' wrote up an article about an awkward sexual encounter with Aziz that she described as sexual assault, and people have been arguing about whether or not it was really sexual assault. Aziz was pushy, and they performed oral on each other, but although they stopped when she said 'no' she still felt violated. Whether or not it was sexual assault is up for debate and everyone has their own take on it but regardless, the sex was awkward and a young lady left feeling upset and uncomfortable. Hence my article, because I think there are easy ways to make women more comfortable.
Men have been throwing their hands up saying "Well if this is sexual assault then I don't want to date!" or whatever, but communication is crucial to making everyone feel comfortable and make sure you're moving at a good pace for both parties. It's just there is so much shitty info about romance and sex out there.
Yeah, maybe I was just taught well about communication as I was raised in a house of girls/women, lol. I just kinda feel like it's sad that there are grown men out there who don't know these basic ideas/principles or follow them. I really do think most of the stuff you wrote here should just be common sense when dating someone. But, then again, I haven't ever really dated all that much so what do I know. I lucked out with finding someone in highschool who I'm still with 8 years later.
Also, why the hell did he shove his fingers down her mouth though? That part is still fucking strange to me, lol.
It was apparently to wet his fingers by using her spit as a lube? I don't know, but it seems a very weird thing to do to someone you just met (Or.. at all. I don't find that sexy.)
And I do agree - it should be common sense! And many men do practice these things, but I've also met some who just seem clueless. My favorite experiences have always been with men who made sure to ask me questions and communicate with me.
Lolol. Yeah, I love it when people do the same action I'd do to induce vomiting. Sooo sexy. Either way, yeah, fucking strange guy.