Challenging Love to Be Unconditional - PART 79
WITH NOTHING BUT MYSELF!
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I sat in my mini cooper in the airport drop off long past the security attendants’ urge for me to move on. He didn’t harass me, however, I’m sure he was well aware how difficult it could be to drive when attempting to see through a wall of water.
Sooner or later I had to go home to nothing but myself, an empty house, an empty bed, and an empty heart.
I couldn’t believe I was really living this. He was already fading from me. My still conditioned brain would visualize his exuberance at meeting up with her again, which tortured me even more. I wanted to text him...but I didn’t. I wanted to call him...I didn’t do that either. I wondered if he was thinking of me, worried about me, wondering what I was doing without him now, simply wishing he would reach out to me. But he didn't.
I didn’t dare enter my bedroom. I sat in the middle of my living room floor in a house full of silence. I just sat there for hours without water, without food, nearly without breath. I didn’t even bother to light a fire to keep myself warm or to add an amber glow to the room.
What does one do with a pain like this? What does one do when love no longer answers your call? What does one do to get inspired to live again...to breathe again….to love again? To simply get up and put one foot in front of the other?
I fell asleep sometime between the moon's glow and the rising sun. My sleep was short and interrupted, uncomfortable and unsettling. He wasn’t entwined with me like he did when we slept, so I had the present reminder he wasn’t there beside me. My eyes ached from so much crying, my heart ached from the intensity of exploding, my mind ached from thinking of him so much, and my body was exhausted from processing so much energy.
I finally got off the floor to take a pee and to grab myself a glass of water. I wrapped in a blanket and sat in the cold air on the back deck, facing east as the sunrise dusted my face at the break of day.
I decided it would be in my best interest to breathe again, and to get a grip on myself as I was well aware that this was just the beginning. In these moments I was grateful to be adept at meditation to be able to just sit and take it all in, as I felt there was nothing else I could do.
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on this journey with me toward Unconditional Love!
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I know at some point, it is going to be like in the Wizard of Oz, where you realize the love in your heart was there all along. But the road we must walk to find it. At least it can be a little humorous looking back...
OMG John!!! What a great analogy! It's amazing the journey we have to take to get back to ourselves!! What a love! Thanks for the comment!
I think I understand your pains better than anyone because that was my exact feelings on January 14 this year when my partner decided to leave me for whom I chose to be and not what she wanted me to be. I was wishing for the whole world to just come to an end, because I saw her as a precious part of me that I was not planning to let go. (when the table turns, I hope to put pen to paper and write about her)
She thought I will end up a broke man with the way I'm spending on other people's happiness, she complained severally on that, but that's the only way I've learnt to live, I can't live any other life than that, I find fulfilment doing so, so she decided to leave because she's not ready to be with a poor man for the rest of her life, she forgot the fact that givers don't lack. I'm giving out all, yet I'm not lacking anything. Smiles
I think we really share a common feelings towards those who we claimed to love.
So sorry you have to face that for love, it's one of the most difficult sacrifices to make for the one we love. Allowing them to leave at times would help us in knowing our stands. If truly they belong to us, they will surely come back, and if not, why not let them be and allow those who truly deserves our hearts to come in.
Exactly!!! There is so much to be learned from love in every phase of it, and the learning continues on and on!! Or...is it just that we are remembering?
Glad to hear your heart is still strong after the challenges that come with a "break up". It seems you have used your pain to do something great for the world and are blessed to better yourself along the way.
YAY for you @emmakkayluv. Feeling the pain with you and the rejoicing of creating something anew! <3