RE: HOW YOU DEAL WITH A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP?
When you feel like there’s something wrong about your relationship, observe. If its killing you and your heart, talk about it, if you cant handle anymore and you keep hurting yourself because you want to stay..... wrong, LEAVE , WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.
You should love yourself more. Being in a toxic relationship won’t grow. There are things that we can say it’s toxic, so many things. Sometimes we have to listen also to our friends cause they are the one who can see what’s happening. When you are in love so much and you gave all your effort and time but this partner just do nothing, it’s unrequited love and you are just fooling yourself. Walking away in a toxic relationship is hard and you feel pain especially you are in love with your partner, but learning a lesson from that relationship is a good thing because you will know who you want to avoid in the future, you will learn to love yourself more and you will be happy and thankful that you decided to walk away because it’s for your own good.
TOXIC RELATIONSHIP!!!
If you are wise and a keen observer, at the first months of courtship, you'll see if he is the right partner for you or if he is the person you want to be with forever. When choosing a mate, we must consider everything, be an open-minded person and do not fool yourself believing that you can accept his flaws, curves, and mistakes. Big problems begin with little ones. If you think you can tolerate some of it since nobody is perfect, it's okay but we need to figure out how long and what are the things that we can tolerate.'I do' is actually the longest sentence because it is life sentenced'. I mean, when you say 'I do' to someone you must prepare yourself because it's a serious matter. Not all relationships are like on the fairytales that we are reading," and they live happily ever after", that's not realistic, when we got married, it's just only the beginning. So, start it right and it will end the best...
I totally agree with what you said @franbel, we may experience those kind of hurting and pain but enough is enough, cause it can do no good if you stay in a relationship where you yourself will be desolated in the end, it’s not like that.