Hello everyone @luckyspark is here again to talk about WHEN DATING IS REAL. There are numerous things we fail to understand about dating, but I will bust you bobbles on the above topic.

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Anyone can claim to love you but better is the one that chose you. Dating is a give and take, if you see it as only "TAKING" you are not getting it right. If you are reading my post this morning I have one thing for you, Love with your whole heart but take your brain along to justify your heart.

WHEN DATING IS ON THE RIGHT TRACK:

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• The first insurance is PEACE, there is that inner peace that comes with the right person.
• You don't love someone you don't trust.
  If there is no issue of trust, then you're at the right track.
• When dating is real, you plan with and for each other, no one sees another as a visitor.
• When dating is real, you date for marriage not for sex.
• Dating is real when you know each other's aspirations and work together to actualize it.
• When your feelings are mutual, dating is real.
• Dating is real when no one begs for attention and communication.
• Most people misunderstood care for money. The greatest sign of care is to value one's love or feelings for you.

WHEN DATING IS ON A WRONG TRACK:

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• You can remember how long you have dated but you don't know where you're heading to.
• The easiest phase to use always "IS COMPLICATED" of course you are always having misunderstanding.
• Even when you try to keep communication, what you get in feedback is " I'M NOT THE CALLING TYPE"
• Every effort to make it work is seen as nagging or desperation.
• When you try to know what the future holds for both of you "THE RESPONDS IS YOU ARE TOO FAST"
• The demand for SEX is high while the demand for MONEY is also high.
• One week one trouble; one month two issues.

Ladies and gentle men, When you want your dream woman/ man to come true, you must first Wake up.

YOU DON'T MANAGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOU NEED TO ENJOY IT

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Just recently I read on the internet on how a newly married man killed his wife because of minor issue. i wiped bitterly, all this happened because When you fail to consider some factors before getting married you will eventually fall into the wrong hands.

My dear Beautiful Creatures Don't allow the love for materialism to drive you to a marriage that will end your life. Don't endure a relationship that have clearly shown that is not going to work. A broken relationship is better than a broken home. Don't rush into a relationship that will take away your joy and send you to your early grave.

TO THE GUYS OUT THERE, IF SHE LOVES YOU DONT TAKE HER LOVE FOR GRANTED.

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Yes You strive to get her attention you call her 10× a day send her text buy her launch and now she sees you as a caring and loving guy and she finally loved you wholeheartedly leaving her numerous admirers just to be with you.

You now took her love for granted, her presence is no longer valued. You now make her to cry to bed every night. Remember You promise to make her happy but now her meeting you has brought her more pain than she never wish to witness.

Don't toil with the heart of a woman that loves you. Don't take her love for granted, you might leave her to see how empty you are without her. Stay cool enjoy your relationship because you are not meant to endure it, I love you all.

I'm your Relationship Coach @luckyspark ORLU FIRST SON