Is it so hard to be real ?
The man is built that he never lives with just one reality and every day every one of us is immersed in a different way in the world of illusions.
For some, it's the computer with its virtual games and social networks, for others - the TV or the book. If our dreams are positive, if they do not deviate us from reality and help us to live and work - wonderfully. If, however, they take away all our time and put us on the yoke of illusions - the situation is serious.
Not all illusions are harmful, it is important what form they accept. Because, from the point of view of psychoanalysis, the withdrawal in fantasies is a kind of psychological defense: in this way we deal with stress, anxiety or pain. Over time, this process deepens and leads to two opposite results: either one closes and stays completely in the fantasy world, losing touch with relatives and abandoning his work , or learning to control his fantasies. In this case, in the presence of talent, the dreamer gets the chance to become a good artist, musician or writer.
Many people do not make the difference !
Why are we lying?
Why we continue to live in our fictional world-why? We continue to build a wall with invisible bricks, on imaginary world , which we even no longer see, why?
We speak words that we do not even know what we say, throw them away no matter what they mean, what meaning they carry, how this words reach other people ...
It is ugly to live in an illusion! The illusion where you are the author of yourself. It's as if you're playing someone's role in life .
I want my role, my replies, my costumes ... I want my words, which are true today. Is it so hard to be real? At least be honest to yourself , and to others to..... Don't continue to live in a fictional world where you do everything "forcibly" - without feeling , where you are not capable of experiencing anything ...
Be yourself people !
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Very good read @patelincho. Some people live in an imaginary world because it gives them a sense of safety and power against their weakness or fears. This, unfortunately, can lead to lies, deciet and in worse case, harmful to themselves and others. Thanks for sharing, Upped.
Thank you for reading , you know my blog is part of my soul !
You are welcome..more success
great post
Thank you :)
What u mean by real? Everything is an illusion. Almost every your behaviour is learned or culturally conditioned. Your model of reality is mostly learned, not necessarily real. I mean you build your model of a world from your perception of reality, that mostly is based on illusion.
We can only "see" trough our 5 senses, and all 5 of them are just signals, electrical impulses. Real objects are build from atoms, which they are mostly empty, and on smallest quantum level they turn to be just an energy (information?), vibrations, which their condition is defined when is consciously observed (dual slit experiment).
Reality is more strange, than you think it is ;)
ohh you went on tottaly diferent point . I dont speak about impruve or build , i speak about so much dont like yourself that you need imaginary world to fit in it !
Yeap. I know your point. But I wanted to tell everybody is building his own imaginary world (model of reality). Maybe you are good with yourself in yours world, but somebody else don't.
For example: First case. Somebody is born in a concentration camp, and he takes this condition for normal. He is happy, beacuse feeding time is coming.
And second case is some rich bitch with big nose, and her world can be a living hell ;)
So all is mental/perception. Our difference lay in models of reality we building.
Hard to be real, when u don't know what reality is, and all u know is learned/culturally conditioned not necessarily real.
I see your point :)
Hey @patelincho, this hand pic just freaked me out!
Be positive + be yourself = Beautiful world!
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Yess haha , make people wayk up !
Nice post
Thank you !
These kinds of people don't really fill my daily experience. I see them but I'm lucky enough to have lots of great people on my 3D life and on steemit like you that make it easy to relax and just try to make things better rather than have to always think about the fantasy world. Thanks for being you .
Stay awesom !
My husband says it is easy to be real. The difficulty is in dealing with other peoples delusions of reality. 'Mental alchemy" he says, "use mental alchemy because thoughts become things". Aloha!
He is realy right !
Everyone nowadays lives in his own version of reality....and those who are trying to be real are called douchebags....Hypocrisy and putting on masks is the new so called 'swags'
You can be caled cruel also ....
I think u misunderstood.....'called douchebags by people who are fake'...Sarcasm gone wrong.. LOL...Nice post btw!
I felt the surcasm ............. i ignore it because words must be chosen by meening !
Actualy yes , fake people are usual see others like .......douchebags because they dant want to see the real world .
OMG I love you so much!
Same much i love you !
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Well. nice post.
Well , thank you !