I think that all of us have our own right for decisions. I never pictured myself as a married person, I never dreamed about big wedding or kids. Life is a funny thing and right now I'm married but do I feel force by society to produce kids straight away or at all?! Hell no.. why? Because I do whatever I feel I want to do with my life and I don't look what other people say.. so what I'm trying to say here is... Do What your Soul and Mind is telling you to do.. and if someone don't like it... Just Don't Care! Good luck