DISCOVERING OUR DIFFERENT EMOTIONAL NEEDS 1

In relationship,men and women are ignorant of the fact that they have different emotional needs,because of that they do not inherently understand how to support each other.
Men usually give in relationship what men desire and women normally give in relationship what women desire.They both mistakenly think that the other has the same desire and needs,as a result they both end up dissatisfied.
Sometimes men and women feel they give love and it is not being appreciated,,the simple reason is because they are not giving it the right way.
A perfect case study presents itself as follows; a woman feels she is being loving when she ask a lot of caring questions or expresses concern,but this could be annoying to a man.he may start to feel controlled and might not want to open up,but the woman is then confused because if she was given that type of support she would appreciate it.
Similarly,when a woman gets upset,a man thinks he is loving and supporting her by making remarks that minimizes the importance of her problems.he may say 'dont bother,its a small problem' or he might totally ignore her thinking he should give her time to cool off not knowing that when a woman is upset she needs too heard,that is she wants too talk about it,what he thinks is support make her feel ignored and unloved.
It is therefore important that men and women understand their different emotional needs in order to maintain stable relationships.
Expect more guide on this subject matter in the coming days..........stay tuned.