@jayna - negativity is toxic for sure. We need a little healthy skepticism in our lives but those who dwell on and foster negativity are never happy. My ex is my "ex" because his whole attitude was always negative, accentuated by a drinking problem. It's a whole different life with @crypt-skip as he is always upbeat and positive and we laugh together every day.
It's hard to live in today's society when our whole nation is in turmoil from the top of our government on down. We are a nation divided and it's a sad thing to see.
But as you so eloquently pointed out, there are places to find joy and optimism. Spread the positive and find some ways to give back to your community. There are plenty of volunteer opportunities no matter where you live.
The Golden Rule should rule the world!