60-SECOND PLAN TO RECONNECT WITH YOUR SPOUSE Part 4
UNCOVER THE ROOT CAUSE OF YOUR MARRIAGE PROBLEMS
95% of the people we work with have no clue what the real issues are in their marriage.
The come to us talking about:
- Affairs
- Poor Communication
- Fights about money, kids, sex and so on..
But those aren't the real issues..
Those are the SYMPTOMS of the real issue...
And when you treat symptoms:
- The problem doesn't really go away, it just becomes masked.
- Ultimately if you solved your concerns with any of these issues, another problem would crop up somewhere else to take its place
Sound familiar?
If you've been to traditional counseling, therapy, self-help books or pastors for help....
You may be stuck in this rut....
Hashing out problems week after week (sometimes year after year)....
Without making any real progress.
While all may have the best intent, most people are focused on fixing the symptoms instead of the root issues...
And they're really solving problems out of order...
The result is wasted effort....
Because people weren't dedicating enough time and weren't focusing that time on the right problems
YOU NEED TO ADDRESS THE ROOT
ADDRESSING SYMPTOMS DOESN'T HELP
THIS DOES NOT LEAD TO CHANGE
THIS DOES NOT LEAD TO PROGRESS
This old approach is like slapping a band-aid on a cancer tumor and thinking you've solved the problem.
(As a cancer survivor myself, I know how disastrous that would be!!!)
It just doesn't make sense, right!?!
So, commit to doing what it takes to get to the root of the problems in your marriage.
That is how true healing...
And restoration can occur.
And still, that's how so many people and professionals are approaching marriage issues...
The truth is, different problems need different approaches... and big concerns need dedicated resources.
They need a guided, systematized process that will get to the root issues.
You don't go to a general doctor for cancer treatment, and you don't go to a general therapist for dire marriage problems.
You need a specialized approach...
while building a strong foundation.
You need someone dedicated to solving the specific problem you have.
Are you ready for real connection to be made in your marriage?
Good!
that allows you to solve problems...
Now, that you know you need to get to the root of the problems...
Let's hear from a couple that did just that....
That is why we don't treat “symptoms” like everyone else does.
We dive in with YOU and the unique situations in your marriage...
We find the root issues first,
And when we do that, the “symptoms” resolve themselves...
Because its all about treating the cause, not the effect.