In marriage, wives don't need diligence

in #marriage7 years ago
  • There are fans backstage to ask questions asked why husband before anything at home do not do but also divorce remarriage when what does housework do. The truth is that the more you pay, the opposite party won't be grateful to you, but instead throw you away faster, so women don't work hard in marriage.



 

  • 1. There's such bloody examples around me. Gigi is our typical Moments wife who gets up 05:00 every morning to buy food for breakfast, send her children to school, then go to work. After returning to serve children cooking laundry vacuuming she looked like a top of the top never stopped at all times. She was packed in her own neat house, but she was very happy. Which man who marries such diligent wife, will cherish it well, right! But her husband didn't appreciate her, but didn't take her seriously. After dinner Kiki does green soup end to husband eat unexpectedly husband but furious accuse Gigi not eye strength eat green soup before sleep drink too much evening night too troublesome dinner eat so full where can eat? Kiki wronged said: "weather too hot, drink green mungbean solution cooling heat, tomorrow will not easily heatstroke." I am also kind hearted kindness, I didn't expect you would be angry! " "I don't want to see you hang around in front of me, not doing this or doing that. I married my wife not marrying a nanny. You don't need to act in front of me. " "why am I acting?!" You don't do anything at home; if I don't do it, I'll do it again next day, let you work again noisy, I work you say I perform! " Once they went to their parents' homes for dinner three times, Kiki started cooking, after dinner also actively wash dishes. Mother-in-law doesn't like Gigi to use detergent, quietly told her son, ask your wife to use less detergent. Kiki husband rushed to kitchen, blurted out: "can you use some detergent, detergent is chemical substances, use more than dirty cancer you know?" " Gigi went from stepping into her mother-in-law home until now she had been busy for four hours without thinking that eventually she was accused. Kiki and I told these times, crying with tears, she didn't understand, a wife daily chores, husband children waiting for food and clothing, tired like a nanny, eventually wronged like a person who is wronged. I told Gigi that marriage was a game of equal force and nobody cared for anyone forever. If you put yourself too low and pay everything, he won't buy it. A person who does not understand for home, also must not understand your hard pay.
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  • 2. My male friend Xiao Lin is a "pet maniac" whose wife Ting isn't good at housework. They marry after marriage and share housework together. Xiao Lin is responsible for cooking while Ting is responsible for washing dishes and feeling the marriage spirit together. Husband and wife collocation, work not tired, two people do housework together than one person do housework efficiency higher, also enhance husband and wife feelings. After dinner every day they go out for walks sharing interesting events during day work and chatting about recent worries and worries. Later Ting pregnant, Xiao Lin actively swept all housework, he said smoke suction much harmful to pregnant women health. Ting Ting wants to wash dishes Xiao Lin says pregnant woman less contact chemical substance go to sofa rest then peel apple for you later. Ting Ting pregnancy reaction is relatively severe, want to eat words Mei Xiao spit, Xiao Lin found that plum contains many additives, he bought himself lemon study Sautéed Chicken with Lemon to Ting eat. Mother-in-law complained that Ting was too lazy, Ting so delicious lazy doing son you too lose. Xiao Lin said, Ma Ting is now the most important stage in life, I am her husband, not considerate care her, but also let her work back to serve me, am I still human? Wait till Ting finished child Xiao Lin still takes children to wash diaper actively studies baby food nutrition makes wife child raise white fat. Xiao Lin married two years anniversary of Moments wife, wife, I love you want to spoil you princess, I like you like lazy cat enjoy my care. Love you man don't need you diligent you forever am my lazy cat! Go to Xiao Lin's home visit, will find a very interesting thing, they do housework between them, another person will say hard, one pays, another will say thank you. I think couples between each other respect each other, is a happy marriage magic weapon.
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3. Marriage, wife least need diligent, like Xiao Lin said, men really love you, will spoil you like a princess, love you can not help you love you. Don't love your man even if you turn nanny driver baby sister doctor accompany eat accompany sleep accompany sleep for this family pay all time energy he still can not understand. You ought to do well, not doing well is not virtuous. Look at a man's heart without you, see your body uncomfortable occasionally do not do housework, his performance. If he doesn't care about your discomfort, blame yourself for laziness or laziness, he himself alone. Why does widowed marriage be too bad? A man can be cruel to watch his woman kneeling on the ground rubbing floor, tired to air not to take off gas, but not hand help, such a man may not lazy, but not you heart. Like the lady on Zhihu, he remarried when he became a man, cooking laundry, and his wife didn't have to do anything like him. Except he doesn't love you, there's nothing else to explain. Failing marriage, wife diligent cannot retain this marriage, successful marriage, your diligence is icing on cake, whatever wife says what to do, as long as he loves you, you are right. Marriage, wife least need is diligent, love you man does not need you diligent, does not love you man, you diligently useless also useless. Wives, from now on, don't be too diligent remember to leave a little leeway for marriage!