#WILL YOU MARRY ME?

samuelpaddy (46)in #marriage • 6 years ago

We have been friends over a year...I think I should propose to her now... although I'm believing God for a better job.

#Him; will you marry me precious?

#She: You're not serious, we are both looking for a job and you are proposing, do you think marriage is a joke?
This behavior doesn't suit you just stop it

,,,After two months he got a job,,,

#Him: Will you marry me now?

#She: So we will marry and be walking everywhere in the same attire on weekends, get a car joor if you're serious

,,,He got a car,,,,,

#Him: Will you marry me precious?

#She: So we will marry and be sharing that same 2 bedroom flat with your younger brother and cousin.
Noooooo.
I will like to have my own space. You need to get your own apartment and furnish it, at least three bedroom or more, One room for guests.
Let me tell you marriage is not to be toy with you have to be a man first.

,,,He got a three bedroom apartment,,

#Him; Precious , please will you marry me now?

#She: Can anybody make a move without God?
Let me think about it and pray as well.
It will help if you will ask my parents for consent to seek my hand in marriage so that I can be sure of your intentions because guys of now a days are all deceivers.

,,,,He visit her family, they had dinner together and he asked for the permission to marry her.

Her mother said...It is up to her.
Her father said....Go ahead and ask her.

#Him: I have seen your parants please will you marry me precious?

#Her Why are you rushing me, please give me more time, let's know ourselves very well, we are not even in the same church, promise we will worship in my own church after marriage, I have a lot of things to do with my life, I want to go for my Master's degree, if possible practice my profession, please give me some times.

#Him: We have been friends for two years now, I have been begging you for marriage, your family regards me as a son and mine regard you as a daughter. It seems inevitable that we will get married. How else am I to convince you that I love you and will like to marry you as soon as you said yes.

#Her: I think we need some time and space for now, let me think about this marriage of a thing and have a conviction because I don't like that your church at all.

,,,,Next day she left home for her elder brother's house in Lagos,,,,,,

,,,,He was devastated, lonely and thinks a lot.
His younger brother who doesn't like Comfort comes around and said, brother there's this babe in my office who is very homely, If not that I'm engaged I would have joyfully proposed to her. This is her phone number, she's very intelligent and humble. Chat with her...let her keep you company now that Precious has traveled to Lagos,,,,,,,

,,,,,,He sends her a line,,,,,,,,

,,,,,,She responds,,,,,,,,,,,,,

,,,,,,,He sends another,,,,,,

,,,,,,,,She responds,,,,,,,,,,,,

,,,,,They chat all day and all night, they are so use to each other.
Became fast friends but didn't meet face to face for three months,,,,,,,

,,,,She wanted to see him but he sees her as a buffer keeping him sane until the love of his life comes to her senses.
Finally they met,,,,,,,,

,,,,He liked who she is,,,

,,,,,He liked what she represents,,,,,

,,,,,,,,He liked her candour,,,,,,
It didn't help that she is the opposite of the lady on self imposed exile,,,

,,,,,She is encouraging, homely, doesn't complain much, very generous, helpful, doesn't fuss about domestic stuff, a wife material, he fall in love deeply with her personality,,,,,,

,,,She lives with her parents.
Her office is very far from home.
She spends hours in traffic everyday,,,,,

,,,,,,He offered her his guest room.
Just for weekdays.
She goes home for the weekend to her parents,,,,,,

Hmmmm
,,,,,The "love of his life returned from exile", saw the whole house had a feminine touch, she's shock and suprise.
Saw food in the freezer, saw the house neat, tidy, and well organised,,,,,

#Her; Is it the tenant in your guest room that has turned herself to a house girl? I thought you said she is gainfully employed?
Chai, Some people are just desperate in this world.
Is she trying to show interest in you or what? I thought she's ordinary tenant...let her park well or else i will make this compound unbearable for her nonsense.

,,,He felt hurt by her words but didn't answer her a word,,,,,,

,,,Next Saturday, tenant told him her parents will like to meet the person she is staying with.
He said ok,,,

,,,,She said Please don't come empty handed. Come with a basket of fruits. My parents will appreciate it.
He said ok,,,

,,,,He bought a basket of fruits.
Went to her house with his friend,,,

,,,Her parents welcomed him with open arms.
He went to the car and brought in the basket of fruits.
Her mother jumped.
Her father was happy.
They started praying.....
"MAY YOU HAVE MALE AND FEMALE CHILDREN IN JESUS NAME"
He was confused,,,,

,,,Her mother said "These fruits are a clear indication of your good intentions towards our daughter. You have behaved like a proper Akwa Ibom boy, we will consult with our people and give you a date, your parents can come and meet with us as well, this is a day of joy,,,.

,,,He felt happy.
He knew he didn't plan to propose.
But well...he was happy.
He and his friend got back home,,,,,,,,,

,,,The love of his life was waiting by the entrance,,,,

#Her: Where were you? I have called you several times you refuse picking, what's the problem sweetheart?

#Him: I was driving.

#Friend: We went for his introduction to the tenant.

#Her; ehhhhhhhhh... what did you just say? Tell me it's a joke.. she faints.

#Him: Why did you tell her that?

#Friend: it is better to tell her the truth once and for all.

,,,. after fanning and pouring water on her head, she revives,,,,,

#Her: Sweetheart tell me it's a joke, please tell me it is not true, she fainted again.

#Him: Silent.

#Friend: Looks away.

#Her: You men are very wicked. After all these years..this is how to pay me back.. I love you with my life but never knew you're an animal..God will judge you. Men are the same... they are very wicked
She cried and left in pains..

,,,,He married the tenant,,,,

,,,, She keeps on placing curses on him..she was heartbroken and in tears every day....her Bp was high..she was in the hospital for many months.. She really fell ill and disappointed.

,,,He wondered why she was forming when she really loves him that much.
He didn't mind her...but move on with his wife"the tenant",,,,,,,,,

,,,,Both of them are happily married.
He married the "tenant" in 2010.
They have three children now,,,,

,,,She married last month,,,,

The irony is; She never went for her master's degree.

The guy she married is still searching for a job.
Moved in with her into her self-con apartment.
he hasn't own a car.
he's not worshipping in her church.
She hasn't practice her profession till now.

#Morals:
Dear ladies, you can reason out by yourself and think about it.
Remember "Pride" comes before a fall.

#TrueLifeStory
#Hope4BetterTomorrow.

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#WILL YOU MARRY ME?