Maturity depends on adversity, success depends on despair
We don’t know if he sells vegetables, farms, sets up a stall, sleeps in the park, kills pigs, or sells meat. But these experiences taught him about products, import and export, and sales. It took him ten years to survive.
It seems to be effortless to see many people because they work hard day and night!
No success in the world is so simple. Behind the overnight popularity is the accumulation of countless days and nights. Behind the splendor is the bitterness that you can't see.
In this dark space, they have to endure various grievances: for example, efforts are denied, efforts cannot be recognized, tolerance cannot be understood, sincere cannot be accepted, and efforts cannot be achieved.
I worked very hard during that time, but no one cared about me. I had to endure all kinds of grievances and loneliness, and at the same time, I had to pretend that nothing happened. This is also the time when I can be moved when I talk about it in the future.
However, this time is only God's best reward for a person. As long as you can tolerate what others can't, you can get what others can't. How much grievance you can endure, how much success you can achieve in the future.
Therefore, only those who pass through this dark swamp can see the true meaning of life and many truths in the world. Only in this way can they be regarded as a truly successful life.
The so-called: mature in adversity, awakening in despair.
A true hero must go through two stages: adversity and despair.
In the course of our struggle, God will always arrange for some unexpected things to happen. It catches us by surprise. This is called adversity.
When we want to succeed, there is always a big difficulty before us, which makes us seem to be facing a big enemy. Before we succeed, we must do our best to traverse it. This is called despair.
Only those who can get out of these two dilemmas are truly strong in life!
The difference between ordinary people and heroes is that heroes know the truth in adversity, see through the laws and truth, so as to seize the opportunity, embark on the real path, and then work hard and create miracles in the desperate situation of life.
Ordinary people choose to follow the tide in adversity and give up in despair.
We live in adversity and die in happiness.
In good times, people always lose their fighting spirit, are insensitive to changes in the external environment, and even become passive. The most expensive heroism and passion in life are also lost a little bit!
In the face of adversity, it is easiest for people to keep reflecting on themselves, and keep asking themselves: What is not good enough? what happened to you? How can we change the status quo and become stronger day by day.
Similarly, if people do not experience a desperate situation, it is difficult for them to have painful reflections, and it is also difficult for them to deepen their soul's self-torture.
In a desperate situation, people are easiest to fully understand, that is, when you are about to lose everything, even when you are facing life and death, people are often the easiest to understand the truth, see through life and death, and become extraordinary.
Since then, everything has lived and died. Everything comes and goes freely in your heart.
Before success, there is always a stage of "suffering".