The Reasons Behind Your Lack of Enthusiasm and Ways to Treat It....

in #mindset6 years ago

Hi, fellow Steemians!

Lack of enthusiasm dogs the path of many people that might have been once fearless dreamers.

It is no strange thing to surrender your will to the undying darkness of the night, and forgetting the promise of the dawn. The people who are unmotivated to the point of utter reluctance towards the idea of taking steps for their goals and desires are those who suffer from despair and a general lack of enthusiasm.

What are the reasons that eventually bring us to this place of despair and how can we treat them?


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The people who suffer from lack of enthusiasm are often those who call themselves realistic, but in truth they are pessimistic souls who only see the negative and empty side of everything.

It shouldn’t come as much of a surprise that everything in this world is complicated and there are many sides to a matter. Some people choose to see the silver lining while others can’t help but drown in hopelessness with the idea of something going wrong.

Self-awareness is key in fighting your negative outlook towards life. If you are honest with yourself about your capabilities and challenges, you will come to terms with them and move on to the important part of the story; which is taking steps with bravery to deal with them.


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Setting unrealistic and illogical goals can be another path to despair and eventual lack of enthusiasm. In the world of business, it is commonly believed that if you set big and long-term goals, you will be highly motivated to achieve them.

Recently, neurologists and phycologists have proven that the complete opposite is true. When you set unrealistically big goals, you are not accounting the unexpected challenges and difficulties that you might face as a result of your ambition, and thus when you fail, you fall into despair and lose your interest.

You should not confuse this with dreaming. You must always be a fearless dreamer, but you shouldn’t undermine the laws of reality and life when you set your goals.


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One of the other reasons that we are inclined towards depression is our unawareness about the small everyday things that have an effect on our subconscious mind.

The people with whom you interact, their words and their actions, the things that you are exposed to, all sorts of thoughts and ideas and beliefs, all have an effect on your outlook towards life.

The person who surrounds himself with negative energy will inevitably lose his enthusiasm for life or all the things that he once wanted to do.

Be mindful of what you surround yourself with. It is not merely your internal thoughts that have an effect on your mind, but everything that comes at you from the outside world.


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If you feel depressed and with no enthusiasm whatsoever, it is only an indication that you need to change something in your life. Look for that big change which will turn your mindset upside down and help you get on your feet again.

You already have the tools with which you can succeed, do not allow your lack of enthusiasm get in the way.

Fight it, beat it, and win!

A BIG HUG!

@chbartist

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Despair is real, very real, and I believe everyone might have experienced a version of it in our life. What is important to remember is that time always moves and it changes, just as there were good times, there will be good times again. It is a battle that each and everyone of us fights, in different situations and different ways, the power of a kind word can go a long way to help someone get out of despair, even if it is for a little while as that might be the time they need to realize that all is not lost and that they can stand up and fight again.

It is true that many times we do not realize that our life is built with small actions, with each thought, each habit. And if we make every moment, every moment something magical, it would be worth living.
Because everyday life would enjoy it to the fullest, day to day would not be tedious, nor would it be long waiting for something good to happen, but it would already be happening.
We are the authors and the protagonists of our history.
Much love and thanks for your writings @chbartist 🌸

Sir, your posts are very good. Your post also has an answer with a question that clears the suspicion. I would say that it is a very good post. I can not go to your previous post because my exams were going on but I Let's try today because it is beneficial for me

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Sometimes I lacked enthusiasm but I just think of the reasons why do I fight in this battle of life and it gives me the power to go on.

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Saludos @chbartist! El entusiasmo es la energía que impulsa a la persona a desarrollar sus proyectos, tanto personales como profesionales.

Esta energía dada por el entusiasmo puede ser debilitada por situaciones negativas que se presentan, debilitando a la persona, dejándola sin animo de seguir con sus proyectos.

En base a lo anterior, debemos desarrollar estrategias, que nos permitan identificar esas situaciones negativas, tomar la acciones necesarias para bloquearlas; no se puede permitir que estos contextos negativos, tanto externos como internos nos detengan en el camino, restando nuestro recurso más valioso que es el tiempo.

Si estamos enfocados en nuestros objetivos y ademas, "preparado a nivel mental y físico", las situaciones negativas no deberan afectar nuestro entusiasmo.

Feliz día!

Honestly such a help full and motivational article. Especially if I talk about myself im a person who scared from negative side of any work I mean to say that when I decide to do something or set a goal to achieve something I always think about it's negative part which always break my courage to do to that work. I always try to overcome from it but it is taking longer period than I expected. I'm trying to understand myself and doing my best to get raid from it.

thanks sir for sharing.
positive attitude and avoid negative thoughts.
Useful advice, guidance and techniques.

Just what I need right now.. I'm motivated and charged up to do the right thing. Thanks so much

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@chbartist and followers, from my particular experience, discipline and day to day programming goals are fundamental to conserve the enthusiasm. Dreams are dreams until that you begin to work for these and it turns in a reality. A big hug man.

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Self-awareness is the best way to realize that the behavo that have gotten to where you are at will bot necessarily provide you with what is needed to continue to grow. It is what will allow you to adapt to change to lush forward towards goals and objectives.

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