Why You Need to Make a Choice Now!

in #mindset6 years ago

Hi, Steemians!

It is easier to live a life of indulgence and obligement. Many of us would sooner take the course with the current of the river rather than sit down to think and make actual decisions about our life.

This is not to say that we do not make decisions, but often enough, we find a lot of our friends and acquaintances living the life that other people have chosen for them, or at best a life that they have imitated from other people and their actions.

To those who procrastinate and protract, you need to make a decision right now and I am going to explain to you why!


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We are, all of us, natural procrastinators. By this statement I do not merely want to claim that we procrastinate doing the things we hate; chores and tasks that are not in our best interest or we cannot bring ourselves to really enjoy.

No, the truth is that we are procrastinators of thought and progress.

We rarely give ourselves a chance to reflect on our future or our current state.

We do not want to think about how we are doing and how are days are spent. Because facing the truth is always hard, and the truth is that we are not living up to our real potential.

It is hard to sit down and think about how bad you are doing. It is hard to criticize yourself, your thoughts, decisions, actions, and eventual shortcomings that are a result of those decisions and actions.


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Hence, we procrastinate and procrastinate, indulging in the silly distractions of daily life to put out the fires that are raging at the back of our mind, begging us to heed to their word of wisdom and sit down to reflect on our life and its progress.

But we are not here to whine or grovel about the nature of human beings. We are here to find solutions.
Today, I have a very simple point: You have to accept the hard truth of your life and make a decision now.


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What decision is that?

One might ask. You must decide what you want to do with your life.

You need to determine your purpose, and take steps towards that purpose with all your heart and your will.

Some of you think that you have plenty of time and you could always make that decision. Some of you think that you are not prepared for it…
… and that is where you are wrong.

Because trust me, friends, if you do not make a choice now, you will be at the mercy of those who do!


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There are some people, unique and particular, who work up the courage to make a choice and dedicate their life to a cause. For the common man, and most of the people living in ignorance, it is easier to follow that man and fall prey to his thoughts and intentions, as stated at the beginning of the article.

That is why the human society is still struggling with freedom of thought. There are doctrines, schools of thought, and other sorts of occult groups that people tend to follow.

They submit themselves to a particular doctrine, because it is easier to follow than lead.

By facing the hard truth and thinking about your life and your future, you will come to make a decision and there, you will finally have freedom and satisfaction. There, you will have a life fulfilled.

Make a choice now, or you will always be at the mercy of the people who do!

A BIG HUG!

@chbartist

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You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!

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I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.

I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.

You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.

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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.

But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!

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You are right. Until then, until you made a final decision, doubts will torment you, you will always remember that there is a chance to turn back, and this will prevent you from working effectively and going towards your goal .. Courage gives a person power and even magical power. It must be decided Who ponders a long time, does not always find the best solution.

It is necessary to make a choice if you want to be successful. It is hard to do that but if you don't then you won't survive. Everyone who became successful made a choice he/she decided to do something extraordinary. That's why at this point he is successful. Remember, it is not necessary if you make a choice then you became successful rather then there is a long time of struggle. Making a choice means you decide to fight with failure with decorations. Stay calm and solve problems because the time is not far when the sun will shine again.

Left your soft corner behind and ignore obstacles and distractions so you can achieve your goals.

With much love @ajks

Excelente aunque yo diría: "es necesario hacer una elección para empezar a vivir y dejar de sobrevivir".

totally agree, none of us knows when our last day will be and that is why now is the time to face the reality of the things we are wrong and strive to see a satisfactory change and not give up, but every day keep fighting to be better. If we had a failure or a fall, we only have two options: keep crying on the floor or get up, shake the dust and keep walking despite the pain, so let's reflect and if there is something to change, now is the time.
Thanks for sharing this article with us, I loved it.

great advice. freedom of thought. interesting concept. most don't fully know what it means. they just think they do

@chbartist
Many people in this world are working and earning money but are not happy, because it's not there choice. So to be happy and as well as productive you need to be work for your choice. Every successful person in this world are successful because they made a decision and they work hard for it in every situation.

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@chbartist many of us wan't make a short drink of vine due which they have to prepare themselves for a long journey of strugle. But at the end they so tired and have less energy to enjoy the happy moments of life. The best thing is please hold yourself and stop from looking ahead that we can fully focus on our today. Thats it?....

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Es una buena reflexión, personalmente creo que no todos nacen para ser líder y algunos lo pueden ser con facilidad así como con dificultad pues en este mundo hay de todo tipo de personas. Ciertamente cada decisión influye mucho en nuestra vida y la de los demás en otros casos, creo que dependerá de la formación de la persona para tomar una decisión para si mismo, para ayudar a otros, para afectar a otros, etc.

Making a choice is one thing, but there are times in life that going with the flow makes you more resilient and more adaptive to life's currents. A choice is one thing, but knowing when to bend it and modify it gets you to come out at the end successfully. Don't hold onto a choice you've previously made too tightly.

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Yaa! @chbartist, most of the people living a life which is chosen by others like their family, teachers, friends. I don't want to say that we should not obey their decisions, but its important for you that make your own life by yourself. Making your path by you experience and working, is more important.

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Ni agree with your post about life. Most of my friends living the life that they didn't love/choose and its sad.