Thanks @chbartist for this teachings, indeed many people make mistakes in what we say or speak out to some people. Some of these ulterances we do not weigh them whether the fellow we are speaking to would be hurt or not. The only thing is to pour out these words for them, and one of the things is prophesying to someone. Some of the things we prophesised sometimes can ruin relationship between the person and his family andwe should be careful of that.